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No apologies needed for being nice, it's admirable. Find legitimate things to occupy your time, like joining a group that meets around the times you have the most problems. Like astronomy, darts, or dance.
Thank you! You really must have some expeirience with all that!
“I am hurt because I hurt you”
ITS A TRAP
Buy a ticket home and tell her you will drive her in x hours to the airport, so she need to pack her stuff. Or you give her the money for an uber.
You invited her in your country with the knowledge that she has no way to earn money. To just kick her out would be horrible.
She says he took advantage of her, right? Tell her to lodge a complaint against moose for SA. Her reaction to this will prove if she is telling you the truth. This will also help you to take a final decision.
I wish you all the best.
Haha yeah, though it can be that the guy owned it first then when they started dating, they decided to share the account…? Anyway, it could be real or just like you've, someone's just bored ?
I also tried to get close to her without much of success from her side, but I respect it – is my bf friend she doesn’t have an obligation to be mine too.
Your boyfriend is full of crap. Part of being a grown ass adult is making an effort to be respectful and friendly to your friend's partner. They both know they're shutting you out and they don't care.
I'd ask him to make some time so you guys can talk face to face. Then explain to him that you miss spending quality time together and want to work on making an effort to spend time together on a regular basis.
Lol trailers/ mobile homes in CA are very nice and a great alternative to $1.2m homes ?
I will. What did I write that you found so terrible though?
That is interesting, and I appreciate your perspective. I do believe there was some physical abuse in his home life, he has never discussed it in detail, and has never been
The way OP worded the request is what made it weird. If he had said he wanted to get to know her better, could he take her out for a coffee sometime, then she would have been able to answer yes or no, to let him know if she did or didn’t want to deepen their casual acquaintance.
OP THIS is what you do. It has saved me in the past and it will save you too. Do not react until you are not physically around each other
Unfortunately I would have to disagree with that. I can however see both sides of this.
Yourself like thankfully many partners find the entire thing utterly disgusting and hurtful (as it is) because the idea of you being deceitful in regards to paternity obviously repulses you.
However on the flip side social media has connected us in so many ways it doesn't take long to come across those absolutely soul destroying stories from people who do 21&me and other such DNA ancestry tests and the like only to find out mum cheated on dad 30 years ago , not one child is his and he went and got the snip thinking his happy loving family was complete and now he's buried after unaliving himself.
Whilst thankfully a rare occurrence (at least I bloody hope so) it's still a haunting one especially as the big detail was “dad never suspected a thing”
It's shit and no it doesn't mean every woman is out to do it if anything the fact that when it happens the disgust almost everyone feels over the situation means it's still relegated to a very small group of people proportionally.
But it really becomes the bowl of sweets with a couple of poisoned lurking around analogy, nobody wants to be the guy that finds the poisoned one and a paternity test is definitive proof of poison or safe. Obviously that's without considering other people's feelings but insecurities often don't care about other people's feelings only your own so I feel a lot of men don't realise at the time exactly how hurtful that is as it's the insecurities doing all the thinking.
So my thoughts or advice depending on how you want to take it is as soon as that question is raised , tell them how much that request hurts you. Then tell them no , counseling and/or therapy first. If he's still adamant about a test after and no reasonable doubts/insecurities have been raised that you agree a test would resolve without hurt feelings then the relationship is dead.
In my personal situation I had a long discussion with my partner regarding paternity testing for my first born, she raised it herself to settle my insecurities because my case is a little bit unique as she stood by me as I fought for 50/50 custody of my 4 year old son only for my ex to announce when she appeared to be losing that she doubts he's mine anyway, unfortunately she was right.
So whilst yes we did have a paternity test on my first born, I didn't suggest it and to me that was one of the biggest gifts, moments , green flags , I'm struggling for the right words but basically I don't doubt her , I have no concerns about my other children (never asked , never tested) and we are still winding each other up after 20 years almost.
Ah okay, I hear you. Maybe mentioning your desire for an open relationship last year caused her to develop some anxiety related specifically to you and the relationship itself, and she’s just kind of spiraling because of it? Just spitballing here. In any case, if you guys only got together (after having to put aside differences) because you thought dating “would be okay”… well, shit, dude lol. That’s not exactly a rock-solid foundation for a successful and fulfilling partnership, y’know?
She’s an able bodied 26 year old woman. She has ways to make money. She will never progress in her life if you baby her. Perhaps what she needs is a cold hot slap of reality to get her shit together.
I think counseling isn't a bad idea. You have a lot of questions and feelings to get out and a therapist can create a safe space for a dialog. When my parents got divorced they went to a marriage counselor who also did divorce counseling. That way when they realized it wouldn't work out they transitioned into working together to find the best way forward for their kids.
It was either a booty call or he just felt lonely/was missing you.
Should I pay you for summarizing or what? Don’t you have an opinion yourself?
I mean if that’s what you truly think about her, that she would purposely deceive you or something, then why would you even want to marry her?
Or she could always find a good man who doesn’t need any training on how to be a normal decent human being.
I’ve felt hopeless countless times over our relationship.
Honey, you are in an emotionally abusive relationship. You should never, ever feel suicidal due to your relationship. Your relationship sounds so, so, so unhealthy and your partner sounds crazy arrogant. If he is going to be a therapist he should know he needs your consent to psychoanalyze you. He should also know there are strong boundaries around therapy. He should never, ever use your past against you in an argument. What ge is doing is unethical as a therapist and abusive as a partner.
The fact he locks his bedroom is insane! The fact he freaked out on you for knocking on his door is also insane. He's much older than you and he really should know better. He's acting like an angry, arrogant teenager not a 33 year old!
I have to mention the age gap because it is a concern. It honestly sounds like he targeting a young, vulnerable woman. Women his age wouldn't never put up with the crap he is doing.
You said he never listens to you. That means he does my respect you send conforms why he went for a younger woman. He wants the upper hand…he wants to control. You deserve to be respected and listened to. He sounds like he will be a shit therapist and a shit partner (source: I'm a therapist)
I know it will be naked but it sounds like you should leave. I don't see it getting better and the emotional abuse has already done damage.
Our relationship is a weird balance. I'm definitely not just a nanny, I used to feel that way but I finally made it clear I wouldn't do that my entire life. Granted, it was during Covid and I was unemployed, so I got saddled with watching his daughter while she was out of school so he could go to work. I think Covid really fucked everything up, and we have to get back to a good balance of us both being our own people.
Because the thing is, I want him to pursue his passion too… but even if he didn't make a dime, I wouldn't care if I spent my weekends watching the girls, as long as I knew he was enjoying himself and doing what he loved to do. I guess I just expect the same from him, but maybe that's naive.
He doesn't really want to marry you.
Sorry.
If you're that worried break up with him. There are plenty of people out there.
I dunno man, she doesn't even sound like someone I'd want to be FRIENDS with
You can say that but you don’t know the details of what I found in his phone? LOL
If you want to have sex with your girlfriend it’s a good idea not to put when she turns you down.
If he would have just got off his ass and did what you suggested he probably would have had sex too.
Just say u want to meet him & go from there. Where are u located?