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The worst crime here is, as you said, the lying. I'm so sorry that your trusting relationship has come to an end. What you did years ago doesn't really compare on any level, does it?. Good luck.
I don’t understand why she couldn’t answer the phone if he was crying? That doesn’t make any sense. It’s not like it was a secret he was crying since she immediately told you. It makes absolutely no sense and is a pretty lame excuse. Op read this and try to tell me it makes sense.
Op: you’ve been gone for almost 5 hrs and you did answer any of my calls. What’s going on?
Gf: bf started crying and I didn’t want to bring him back.
Op: ok but why didn’t you call me back or at least text me to let me know your ok. I called you guys multiple times.
Gf: umm but your bf was crying so it’s ok.
Op: but what stopped you from answering my calls and not texting me back for 5 HOURS.
Gf: umm but your friend was crying
It makes no sense. And it’s not like she was drunk she was completely sober so she can’t even blame alcohol for her bad decisions. I hate to say it but something is definitely going on and you should probably get to the bottom of it before you confront her because her story doesn’t add up at all.
Reason # one million and one never to listen to Reddit advice. This is not how adults handle relationships, or at least not mentally healthy ones. OP is not a weapon for you to use to take your issues out on the world.
A few months?! How long are you going to wait, she's an adult if she doesn't want the responsibility she's not going to randomly wake up soon and think any differently. She might be glad to remove the pup anyway if it's causing her stress.
Same girl, I thought I was something special when this 38 year old dude was telling me a 16 year old that I’d be a ‘great mom to his daughter’ and that I should ’consider us husband and wife’. Then he tried to make me feel bad when I told him I wasn’t comfortable talking to him anymore. Thankfully it never went further than 9-10 emails but gosh I still feel grossed out and yucky inside when I think about it, because how could I not have seen that he was grooming me?
I think the most relevant thing is he needs to see someone. He has obvious anger problems, and his laxness in the relationship could be addressed at the same time. He needs therapy for himself, and you might need couple's counseling, too.
I may not be the one to ask as I'm 34 and my gf is 24. My mom is 20 years younger than my dad (still married and very happy). You won't know till you go out with him. It's not about age it's about if your compatible. My gf always says exactly the opposite guys need to be older as there's at least a 10 difference in maturity women being more mature.
Can confirm, the kids know that their mom blew up their lives because she chose her boyfriend over her family. If they had split up over any other issue, and there were plenty to pick from, the divorce wouldn’t have been as contentious and the kids wouldn’t feel as betrayed.
Yea that's fucking nuts after 5-6 years. I don't blame you for being beyond hurt and questioning your relationship. Her bringing this up out of the blue like that makes me think your gf is taking Susan's problems too personal. Your gf can't seem to understand that the glimpse she showed you of how she views you during her friend's nude time has hurt you. By entertaining this idea she betrayed the relationship you thought had reciprocal trust and respect.
You are allowed to break up for any reason no matter how long the relationship has existed. If this is a dealbreaker then leave that's ok, if you want to work through this that's ok too. Incase you needed to hear it.
I doubt she could stomach being around another like her, either. They'd probably both insist that all the other's opinions were wrong, and that that person was an idiot moron.
The whole point is to feel superior. If they're not worshiping them like OP apparently does, they're not interested.
If I forgave my partner for cheating, rule number one would absolutely be the affair partner is no longer a part of your life, period.
She doesn’t respect your relationship, she’s not respecting you.
You know what the right call is here, you even before this. You’re too embarrassed to be seen with her at events, can’t picture getting married. What’s the point of this relationship then?
Considering there’s only 4 others mentioned the only one who forgot is op forgetting what his wife told him forever ago when they disclosed this apparently
OP, would you be willing to give some numbers? Like what salary he makes now, what salary he would make if you moved, what the job you found is offering you, and the cost of living in the two areas?
Install security cameras around your house, ASAP. The sooner the better. If this happens again (which I really hope it doesn't), see if you can get the license plate number. Tell your daughter to keep the doors locked at all times. He may have been scoping the house out for something malicious. You can use the security camera footage if you need to call the police. It would be a good idea to give your daughter some means of protection; a can of pepper spray or maybe a taser. Teach her how to use it. It could be nothing, but why take the chance? If you can, I'd also get security cameras for inside the house as well.
The worst crime here is, as you said, the lying. I'm so sorry that your trusting relationship has come to an end. What you did years ago doesn't really compare on any level, does it?. Good luck.
I don’t understand why she couldn’t answer the phone if he was crying? That doesn’t make any sense. It’s not like it was a secret he was crying since she immediately told you. It makes absolutely no sense and is a pretty lame excuse. Op read this and try to tell me it makes sense.
Op: you’ve been gone for almost 5 hrs and you did answer any of my calls. What’s going on?
Gf: bf started crying and I didn’t want to bring him back.
Op: ok but why didn’t you call me back or at least text me to let me know your ok. I called you guys multiple times.
Gf: umm but your bf was crying so it’s ok.
Op: but what stopped you from answering my calls and not texting me back for 5 HOURS.
Gf: umm but your friend was crying
It makes no sense. And it’s not like she was drunk she was completely sober so she can’t even blame alcohol for her bad decisions. I hate to say it but something is definitely going on and you should probably get to the bottom of it before you confront her because her story doesn’t add up at all.
Reason # one million and one never to listen to Reddit advice. This is not how adults handle relationships, or at least not mentally healthy ones. OP is not a weapon for you to use to take your issues out on the world.
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Well they aren’t leftover. She was clearly hiding them from you. Sounds Rocky.
The fact, that they think OPs party is special also doesn't mean, that they think OP is special.
A few months?! How long are you going to wait, she's an adult if she doesn't want the responsibility she's not going to randomly wake up soon and think any differently. She might be glad to remove the pup anyway if it's causing her stress.
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Same girl, I thought I was something special when this 38 year old dude was telling me a 16 year old that I’d be a ‘great mom to his daughter’ and that I should ’consider us husband and wife’. Then he tried to make me feel bad when I told him I wasn’t comfortable talking to him anymore. Thankfully it never went further than 9-10 emails but gosh I still feel grossed out and yucky inside when I think about it, because how could I not have seen that he was grooming me?
He's not interested in you
I think the most relevant thing is he needs to see someone. He has obvious anger problems, and his laxness in the relationship could be addressed at the same time. He needs therapy for himself, and you might need couple's counseling, too.
I may not be the one to ask as I'm 34 and my gf is 24. My mom is 20 years younger than my dad (still married and very happy). You won't know till you go out with him. It's not about age it's about if your compatible. My gf always says exactly the opposite guys need to be older as there's at least a 10 difference in maturity women being more mature.
That is not a joke
Break up with her.
Can confirm, the kids know that their mom blew up their lives because she chose her boyfriend over her family. If they had split up over any other issue, and there were plenty to pick from, the divorce wouldn’t have been as contentious and the kids wouldn’t feel as betrayed.
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Yea that's fucking nuts after 5-6 years. I don't blame you for being beyond hurt and questioning your relationship. Her bringing this up out of the blue like that makes me think your gf is taking Susan's problems too personal. Your gf can't seem to understand that the glimpse she showed you of how she views you during her friend's nude time has hurt you. By entertaining this idea she betrayed the relationship you thought had reciprocal trust and respect.
You are allowed to break up for any reason no matter how long the relationship has existed. If this is a dealbreaker then leave that's ok, if you want to work through this that's ok too. Incase you needed to hear it.
what about nudes of her? He surely has some and will pop them onto the net.
I doubt she could stomach being around another like her, either. They'd probably both insist that all the other's opinions were wrong, and that that person was an idiot moron.
The whole point is to feel superior. If they're not worshiping them like OP apparently does, they're not interested.
Decoy venue full of mimes. They're better at keeping secrets.
WELP it's not harmless.
I will not be having another baby ever. Nor do I want another one. My tubal date is set.
If I forgave my partner for cheating, rule number one would absolutely be the affair partner is no longer a part of your life, period.
She doesn’t respect your relationship, she’s not respecting you.
You know what the right call is here, you even before this. You’re too embarrassed to be seen with her at events, can’t picture getting married. What’s the point of this relationship then?
Considering there’s only 4 others mentioned the only one who forgot is op forgetting what his wife told him forever ago when they disclosed this apparently
OP, would you be willing to give some numbers? Like what salary he makes now, what salary he would make if you moved, what the job you found is offering you, and the cost of living in the two areas?
If you find someone with low self-esteem, you can be as mediocre as much as you want.
My thoughts: It is absurd to contemplate marriage in this situation.
Questions:
What is the duration of this relationship?
Why do you object to clubbing?
Do you go to nightclubs without your boyfriend?
Can you explain how he might 'have to' go clubbing? (you mention birthdays but why would that mean that he has to go to a club)
Are you formally engaged? With a ring? And a wedding date?
Do you have any children?
Install security cameras around your house, ASAP. The sooner the better. If this happens again (which I really hope it doesn't), see if you can get the license plate number. Tell your daughter to keep the doors locked at all times. He may have been scoping the house out for something malicious. You can use the security camera footage if you need to call the police. It would be a good idea to give your daughter some means of protection; a can of pepper spray or maybe a taser. Teach her how to use it. It could be nothing, but why take the chance? If you can, I'd also get security cameras for inside the house as well.
He crossed a line. That’s not ok.
Anal hurts some women even when done right. Even if she’s into it, it has to be done right.
And why is it that he's not bothered? Why isn't he offended? I think I would have to question tje OP.
Go with her. You can get a new job.