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If you go back to him he's just going to see that he doesn't get punished for cheating and do it more. Don't look back.
He's cheated before so I think there's always room for concern.
Damn you are really just too far gone, to even argue with. So sure, you keep thinking that?
Thank you for your insight, honestly. I wrote this because I felt like I was doing the wrong thing but also didn't know what the right thing is. I'm going to delete the app for sure. Will probably eventually redownload it, but not until the papers are basically signed or I figure out what I want besides to have a conversation with someone via message. Will be going to therapy again in a week to talk about this as well. The question I have for you, is why do you say wait a year? I'm not sure how I'm expected to wait that long to talk to another girl. I kind of feel like as long as I don't hold my baggage over someone else, use therapy/close friends as an outlet, and be upfront about my situation I am not doing something wrong. I'm willing to be proven wrong, though.
Honestly sounds like he was looking for a at out and instead of having a conversation he chose to make it your fault and try to blame you.
You didn’t do anything wrong, he is just using you as a scapegoat so he doesn’t have to feel guilty.
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Call it what it really is. Cheating. Your wife cheated on you. Being drunk is no excuse for her to do what she did. Do you think she’d forgive you if the roles were reversed? If I were you I wouldn’t care if my spouse was drunk or not, I wouldn’t forgive them if they cheated. I, like you, have to do what’s best for my happiness and well-being and that’s phone a divorce lawyer.
Please he’s making excuses for his cheating behaviors.
He has no respect for your relationship or you.
You need to stop focusing that’s it’s your “anniversary” as you mean nothing to him as he chose to maliciously inflict emotional and mental trauma on you.
Get STI tested if you have been physical because you can have sex in other places than hotels and it sounds like he crossed that line.
Life's too short to be worried about this sort of thing. You're young, have fun, let her have fun. Let her go to the party and find another girlfriend.
Go with your heart
I think that nobody here cares about your sexuality and mostly thinks its weird you have to being your sexual identity to a discussion where it is not relevant. You can be anything you like, and even change during the years you online. It doesn't concern any of us the least.
The main point in your post seems to be that you are harassed by an older rich guy, and that is not okay regardless of your age, gender or sexual identity. Cut this guy off completely and your problem is solved.
If you worry about your fathers and his gf:s lack of reaction, you can try to take it up with them, but it is possible they don't see it as such a big deal that they would like to talk about it or act upon it.
If she says no? “Request” is pretty light for what she's trying to do here
Thank you your response means a lot to me? having been in a similar situation, do you actually believe he realizes he’s doing these things?
Hmm?
one of my guilty pleasures is to watch Paternity Court, and when the child (sometimes an adult already) finds out that someone is really his dad, there is such strong emotion. 2 people who literally know almost nothing about each other, but just knowing they are father and child, was enough to get them crying and missing each other and expressing love to each other. that's for the case of the unknown father who wanted to know his kid.
it looks like you're one of those dads. don't be afraid to express your emotions and words to your kid. even if your dad didn't do it for you, and you always thought in your head, if you ever have a kid, you're going to do things differently. now, you do. so do things differently from how your dad or your parents treated you when you were a kid.
While I agree with the middle of your post, the first sentence and the last one sound a lot like you’re blaming OP for not knowing any better because she was manipulated at 16 years old. I don’t think that’s fair. She is doing the right thing now, based on her post, so I’m not sure that it was necessary to respond so incredulously. She was groomed and manipulated, of course she’s surprised.
Someone who is going through something like this doesn’t need to be admonished for being manipulated, or told “this is ridiculous” in the same sentence that it’s suggested they get therapy. She does need therapy, but she’s been through a lot, and is doing a good job of getting away from this guy, so maybe be a little more gentle?
Dude. He shouldn't be “helping you”. He should be doing his share of the household load. He doesn't respect you and likely expects you to do it because you're a woman. He sees his time as more important than yours. You could tell him if it doesn't change within X time frame, you'll leave and then be prepared to follow through. It's unlikely this behaviour will change.
He’s seeing someone else. The relationship is over, I’m sorry to say.
Look, it’s plain and simple: I personally don’t want a wedding, because I hate the idea of it, I want to elope.
If the man I wanted to do this with told me, “fine, but we’re still having the big wedding I want afterwards” I would truly reconsider if this person is really my person. Because I would feel like they a) don’t listen to me, b) don’t take account of my feelings, c) will always have their way over me with everything else that comes after the wedding (“oh, my wife didn’t want three kids, just one, so we compromised and had two”).
It sounds like you were being ignorant of your fiancée’s feelings, whether wilfully or not, and that is why your relationship fell apart.
What state are you in? Because interest rates for a new home SUCK right now. Terrible time to buy. For example, In california, more than half of your mortgage payment would just be going to interest..
You need to encourage him to get the restraining order. She's bunny boiler crazy, and something needs to be done.
I wouldn’t ruin your work culture by going for it, you need distance from here until your feelings subside and maybe start dating other people once your ready