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I totally agree with you and what you have said in your post in terms of lying and the foundations of a relationship and believe it or not I can’t stand lying, I am from the school that there is no such thing as there’s a difference between a little lie and big lie, a lie is a lie to me and a little one carries as much weight as a big lie.
I think I extended a great deal of personal poetic licence here as I was thinking in my mind that she was drunk and if that was me in the same situation and I made a Rick like the OP did with the second message I thought to myself so why would I have sent another one? And I thought of the lack of concept of time because I know when I am drunk I always recall messaging friends or previous partners when in a relationship with them and I would be like I spoke to you loads last night I remember having a conversation with you so don’t say that I didn’t message you! only to often look at my phone to show the proof of my recollection only to see MSG1 at 8pm and MSG2 at 1am and MSG3 which is always unreadable at like 3/4am and I suppose I said that the OP should do and say that as they might have been the same, that was my kind of thought process but nevertheless you are absolutely correct in pulling me up on it
The 2 year old isn't in school
And I’d have to be able to kick him in the nuts too…
Totally. One of the conditions for forgiving my wife after she did this to me was slapping her in the face.
See how stupid you sound?
In your shoes, I’d give him a summary of why I’m leaving. The ex thing in particular sounds like a very legitimate reason to end the relationship.
That said, you’re under no obligation to explain yourself. You can just say it’s not working for you anymore.
I'm sorry some commenters are making you feel that way. People only comment their own personal opinions based on their own thoughts and experiences. Nothing they say means that your thoughts and opinions are wrong or invalid. They are just different from theirs.
That being said, it is a very good idea to learn to cope with your anxiety and triggers and learn to manage your emotions on your own. Self-soothing is an extremely helpful tool to have, for life in general as well as in relationships.
It is also okay to set boundaries in your relationship that help prevent those triggers. A quick text when they get home is not too much to ask for from a partner. It's okay to expect your partner to respect your boundaries and to have open conversations about both of your needs and expectations. It sounds like you aren't getting that from him, so you have to decide if you're okay with that.
You can't change him, and you can't make him text you when he gets home. But you can decide that you won't be with someone who can't respect a simple ask to ease your mind at the end of the night.
Relationships should not make you feel anxious or worried all the time. If you're feeling these unwanted feelings frequently, that may be a sign that this isn't the right relationship for you. But only you know that.
I'd do some reflecting to make sure that your needs are being met in this relationship and that his behavior is something you're okay with, even if it never changes.
That’s… definitely not normal that’s some weird fetish he should probably see someone about tbh
My thoughts exactly
So now he's not only got nudes of you that you didn't send consent to, he's also got nudes of your previous partner that she has NO IDEA of that you kept much less that some stranger has them?
Why the fuck are you so keen on downplaying exactly how much of a violation this is as well as a red flag?
Nothing good can come out of something like this. And that's complete bullshit you're feeding yourself to say “he hasn't seen me for months”. He could have saved himself a lot of trouble and just jerked to those pictures off your iPad. Instead he's sent them to himself, the cloud for them to be backed up and anyone else if he desires to do so.
Scrub his phone, scrub his cloud and delete the passwords/codes you use and lock down ALL your digital footprints. You need to end things with him and remind him how illegal this all is. The fact he sent them from your account makes it look like you've shared your nudes with him willingly when you know that is not the case.
If they could understand boundaries and rejection they wouldn't be toxic.
I love how there’s this post and the one about the guy who’s wife says his mustache looks like a pedo, and the hypocrisy you see when comparing the comments is laughable
This is a lot
Wanting her to check in with you whilst she's out is fine but tbh a few texts should be fine, you're not gonna get much out of a call whilst she's out
In regards to her going to her mates, I'd understand if they were one on one but they're not so I'm not sure you have a valid complaint there unless there's some history between them?
I think it's more the post that said they were a 31yr old woman
Can you live! without the stuff you left at his? Sounds like he's looked for any excuse to break up with you tbh.
Please unblock all your friends and if you feel safe doing so, them them you were in an emotional abusive relationship and just got out.
I’d like to say I am not/was not cheating on him & had already blocked all the men I was previously in contact with prior to us dating. (Respecting his wishes)
Whilst it's normal to want to block exes, the fact that he insisted you blocked all the men you've ever been in contact with is not great. It sounds very controlling, as is going through your phone while you're sleeping.
Also this
I(26F) Stayed at my (25M)bf’s house for the week. When the weekend came I slept a lot, & when we were both up everything felt very uncomfortable
Do you feel that you slept more than you normally would?
I’m in no way stuck, I have a decent job at the moment (working part time) and did go to university. I know I could support myself and my child if we separate and wouldn’t need to depend on family. I also don’t regret getting married that young, I feel it was the right thing for me personally. And to clarify, we met when I was 18, got engaged (religiously married) when I was 19 and moved in to live! with each other when I was 20. It wasn’t as creepy or weird as you’ve mentioned
Thank you ❤️ I actually have read thay somewhere myself, probably here on reddit to be honest. I am absolutely in a better place now than I was this time last year emotionally, but it comes on strong sometimes still!
Op’s sociopathic replies are even weirder
Well done darling, pat yourself on the back for standing up for yourself.
However just a note: don't expect him to change.
You are both young and got a lot going on, there's room for growth. But if a manipulator has been continuously using tactics to get what they want, they aren't going to change. They dont see the problem- they are happy with the situation.
I understand that you want to give your bf a chance due to his troubled upbringing and past. Whilst it's important to be understanding of his difficulties, you still shouldn't be treated like this ever. Empathising is understanding why, not enabling or excusing bad behaviour.
Have boundaries, stand up for yourself, demand basic respect that you are a person, not some doll to be molded into what another person wants.
Good luck but don't hold out on your BF changing- he's shown you multiple times who he is and he's OK doing it over and over. He needs to want to change; people often don't but pretend to until the dust settles and move back into old ways.
You can’t change someone like that. He doesn’t look at you as a person. This is sad. Get rid of him.
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My partner of one year tells me I am not caring for him enough.
The ways he wants me to care for him are mostly “traditional” like cooking, cleaning, but also partially financial by helping with groceries, for example. He is unemployed but formerly cash-rich for a period of time (before we met). He is absolutely broke now and owes me money. We do not live! together. He says he has ADHD, depression, and recently I discovered some technology related addiction. He doesn’t have any money to pay for therapy and is essentially struggling to meet his basic needs at this point but the mental health symptoms seem to preclude him from taking steps to help himself. Vicious circle.
He says that he needs my softer support and encouragement to get out of this and back to himself. He would like me to “hold his hand through it”, and to be by his side taking some of the load off him.
However, I have been resentful and frustrated for a variety of reasons I won’t mention here. I want him to understand my actions/energy/feelings are a direct reflection of his behaviour. I am often trying to get him to understand my point or to get him to help himself…but I am not caretaking in the right way apparently.
He has asked for something interesting: 28 days of unconditional support. It’s not a contract per se but terms discussed include: – [ ] -seeing each other 2-3 times a week – [ ] -I should be more fun/positive – [ ] -make the plans for us if going out – [ ] -encourage him to tidy up or achieve a goal – [ ] -take the lead on cooking meals – [ ] -initiate affection/sex – [ ] -be softer/gentler in my mood/energy – [ ] -demonstrate my admiration/respect – [ ] -not accuse/bring up the past that starts fights
In theory this is also the kind of relationship I want but how do we determine if this is codependent caretaking OR something that makes a relationship better and deserves effort?
It is totally reasonable that you are not a virgin at your age and with two past relationships. She should have asked you outright if it was that important to her. You’ve done nothing wrong.
oh wow – how often do you even see him?
This is really really messy and he is sending up a lot of red flags. Is the relationship even working?
I met my dad's friend who had married a Filipino woman, and watched the two of them crow about how great it was to marry a submissive Asian woman that waits on her husband hand and foot, and runs his restaurant while he gets to socialize with the customers, blah blah blah. A year later, my dad complained about how dude's wife left him and was going to get the restaurant and basically screw him out of his hot work, except it was HER hard work. I wanted to give her a high five. I think about this story sometimes and smirk.
I don't normally chime in on these threads but I'm compelled because holy shit the comments.
It's as if everyone in this thread has been brutally cheated on and they're projecting all their grief and rage onto OP and bf.
I'll approach this with a little more tolerance and empathy. (Because it's not like they're 40 with a house and 3 kids and we just found out bf has a whole secret second family.)
OP, you both are really fucking young. You met and dated as kids. Some of us still consider you kids. (One day you'll find that flattering lol)
Even if bf was always loyal and transparent, even if your relationship was perfectly great right now, it would still be worth considering taking a big step back.
Unless you desperately and imminently want to be a young mother (fair!) then these years of your young adult life should be spent exploring yourself, other people, learning and growing, and being free to pivot, change, move anywhere, do anything you want – without taking anyone else into consideration. You may never be as free and untethered as you are these days. Why waste these best years on a silly high school boyfriend? I mean, you're bi and you've never even explored that? How sad 🙁
I dated a great guy in high school. I literally broke up with him in college only because I didn't want to be that girl who marries her high school sweetheart. I thought that was just so lame, sorry! In hindsight, sure, we could have been a great match – I see now, 20 years later, that we're still very compatible. But he ended up staying in our very shitty hometown and having a very boring life, while I moved abroad and had an amazing magical life and dream career. I've been dating a younger, very hot European for 6 years. Life is good! I've seen and grown so much more than I would have if I stayed.
None of what I have achieved and experienced today would be possible if I married my high school boyfriend… Life is so much better because I didn't settle for something so simple and easy… I would have been only 10% of who I am today if I didn't walk away to grow.
As for the cheating? I have some tiny bit of empathy here.
Did he send nudes, or just random selfies?
Did they sext, or just flirt?
Did they ever meet in real life?
Video chat?
Or was this a distant virtual friend with blurry boundaries who only exists in texts and a few snapshots?
Because I can see how this dummy compartmentalized an online fantasy-girl and a real-life girlfriend and justified it the same way we justify slaughtering people in GTA. Virtual reality just feels less real to a dumb kid like your boyfriend.
To be fair, he also didn't get to be free to explore others, himself, outside of you. So he kept this tiny little virtual world running in the background to get a taste of that life… without leaving you. Shitty and lame? Oh hell yes. But that doesn't mean he's beyond redemption.
What it means, though, is that most likely both of you need more time on your own to grow and experience the world before you settle down. That much is so clear to me. I hope you see it, too.
Breaking up doesn't have to be devastating. It's a path to growth. I can tell you that one day you'll look back and be very grateful you took a path that leads to growth… rather than a boring path with a dumb boy that keeps you both stifled and limited.
Don't you want to experience more from life than this?
Honestly he’s already married to his mom so you have no future with him.
Well, except for the first sentence of their comment is that they would never put themselves in that position. Not to mention that “the men they're surrounded by” doesn't indict that they've dated them.
If this was my husband, I would cut this woman out of both your lives. Block her. Ghost her. The more contact they have the worse it will get.
Yes. She is saying she doesn't want to continue.
Ohhh.. I thought you meant push past it as in “get over the posts that she puts up on her stories and keep dating her”
Thing is she not my girl, we’ve only been on one date… that’s why I’m being cautious