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Thanks so much for the advice! It’s so true there’s a reason why and yes she is definitely not letting him move on. It’s really bothering me too because he’s acting like she doesn’t have feelings like that. Yes I am definitely going to get my head sorted out and then talk about it, honestly I think I need a few days.
Your life aint ruined dude hers is
The notion of putting out implies that it's something the woman does for the man, like it's a reward or something. If that's the base, good luck building up an equal relationship. It's antiquated and belongs back in the relationships of the 50s.
And if a woman, for instance, wanted to wait until marriage, a guy would be perfectly justified in saying the relationship is not working for him.
Realise that it’s a power trip and a form of negging for him. The intent is to make you feel bad. That’s it The fact that you chose and ordered your own gift is yikes. Another form of control. Think about the rest of your relationship. Is he only happy when he is in control? How are chores split? Who bought the gifts for his side of the family.
I’d be reconsidering the whole marriage Do you want to spend your entire life choosing and ordering your own gifts and being made to feel bad for behaving like a normal person by getting him something that shows thought and effort just for him to throw it back in your face???
Even if she is plain ol' stupid, she's also a liar who avoided an important issue.
So I wouldn't be able to trust her going forward, she didn't make good decisions and doesn't take responsibility – if I had an STD, I'd research it instead of being in the dark about how it's transmitted. Also, I dunno how poor the sex ed is where she went to school, but we knew this about herpes at, like, age fourteen.
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Get Plan B or other emergency morning-after pills. Depending on where you live!, it should be available over the counter at your pharmacy.
Keep in mind that for many women, plan b makes you feel sick, like having PMS x 10. So get her some chocolate and be supportive.
There’s not really such a thing as “safe days.” You know what they call people who use the fertility awareness rhythm method? Parents.
You never saw the 1980 version of The Shining, did you? Because there's one in there.
Don’t rely on only condoms
It's kind of a shitty thing to say, but on the other hand… Who cares about the other dicks she had, it's yours that's in there now!
Bingo. Total coke-head behavior.
The same night is wild tho.
One you need to confront and tell her and 2 it’s better to rasie a child ina home where the parents don’t hate each other then having a home we’re their is constant doubt and trust issues
This! He said something shitty but if her feelings are hurt it's her own fault?!? Yeah naw, that's not how this works.
Yes and no, I have had experience with somone who changed and refused to change back no matter what I did.
Yeah I've slept a lot of nights on couch cause he gets that mad I don't even wanna be around him. Talks down to me too and disagrees with everything I have to say cause he knows it all apparently.
Guess I'm just looking for the physical abuse at this point…
I feel embarrassed for not being sexual compatible….
Well, he cheated on his girlfriend with her sister, so that might been a red flag. Also, you didn't have kids, and that's when abusive people drop their mask sometimes, as its much harder to leave. And you're right, she is younger and might not be in a position to leave him as easily as you. Bottom line is: it's not your fault.
Send the pictures to his Mom.
So first off, you need to stop defending yourself as not being transphobic cause it’s irrelevant. The thing that matters right now are first off 18 (I also have one and it’s a HARD age, period). That is an age of differentiation in human psychology. During this time your kiddo is naturally going to push you away no matter what you’re doing right or wrong. You will be a monster in their eyes and that’s just a coming of age thing that hurts, a lot. They get over it.
But secondly and more importantly, stop defending yourself if your trans kid is calling you transphobic. There has to be something that hurting them, and your job is 100% to apologize and ask them what you can do, or not do, to work toward a more fruitful relationship with them. I don’t mean to sound critical, but this is a fresh wound for me too and I really do know what you are feeling. Try to reread your question from your child’s eyes, and feel how it may come off.
My eldest did the same vanishing act at that age and came back around within a few years, and were super close now. Ultimately, know that this is normal behavior, even though it’s very hot to understand. It’s exasperated by their transition, and just keep learning and doing better as you discover new ideas and concepts about how you can support the trans people in your life. We are often blind to our own shortcomings.
This has happened every time I've bettered myself fitness wise in my marriage. He finally just lets it go, but it's not the happiest way to live. My therapist told me I'd outgrown him, and she was/is right. It's a problem, and you can't fix it.
It sounds like he's using you as a sex toy.
I said that I couldn’t not continue a relationship that doesn’t have a future. That I need to see something tangible we are planning or doing together. Then he said it is fine. ? no bothered by it all!
Jesus. Keep up the therapy and get a divorce. You both sound tedious.
Or maybe he's Sokka from avatar, and a fortune teller told him she foresees suffering in his future, mostly self inflicted.
Well, she told him to go for it though…..
First want to say I'm glad despite the age gap I'm glad the relationship is working out. Obviously there's gonna be people who automatically assume the worst and that you're being “groomed” or “manipulated” just because you're younger, people will always judge other people's relationships for tons of different reasons.
Second, you can start by telling your parents of all the good things about him and how good he treats you and how he doesn't make you feel bad or insecure like how some older guys might make younger women feel. You said you're mom had been groomed, so if that ever comes up just tell them how he doesn't do any of the “grooming” things that may have happened to her in the past. Honestly, i think the best they'll learn to be comfortable with it is time, not sure how long you two have been dating but maybe see if you're boyfriend will want to wait a little longer before meeting the parents and after you guys dated a little longer hopefully you're parents will see how serious and in love you guys are. Either way, good luck to you two!
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As the title says, I recently met my boyfriend and we have been together for a month. Its obvious we are attracted to each, we have so much fun together and enjoy each others companies. However, i was offered a job opportunity from Cali to New Jersey. They will be offering me good pay and relocation assistance. My boyfriend isn’t too thrilled though, he wants me to stay and see if I can find a job locally. He mentioned to me that we would have to break up if I do get the job. Does that mean he was never really into me as he claims?