Right? This isn't some girl he dated a few weeks and suddenly comes back saying he's the daddy. This is supposedly his WIFE who, OP claims in their story, were both virgins. Wtf?? It smells. If you can't trust your WIFE the problem is OP husband. Something doesn't add up.
I've been there, girlfriend. My parents hated my husband because he wasn't a tradesmen, didn't drink, didn't party, didn't do sports, etc. He was a big ole nerd, but so am I.
We've been together for 15 years. They didn't accept him until our wedding 4 years ago. I made it clear that if they made me choose, they would lose. I don't bend to dictators who they controlling my life, and neither should you.
If this guy is a good man and has truly changed, then it's up to you to decide if you want to take a chance on him. Have a secret relationship, if you're scared of them disowning you. And if they disown you because you've made a decision AS AN ADULT and have proven you won't be controlled by them, then do you actually want those people in your life?
Dude all the alt girls now a days want the artsy guys lmao itโs backwards
Right? This isn't some girl he dated a few weeks and suddenly comes back saying he's the daddy. This is supposedly his WIFE who, OP claims in their story, were both virgins. Wtf?? It smells. If you can't trust your WIFE the problem is OP husband. Something doesn't add up.
I've been there, girlfriend. My parents hated my husband because he wasn't a tradesmen, didn't drink, didn't party, didn't do sports, etc. He was a big ole nerd, but so am I.
We've been together for 15 years. They didn't accept him until our wedding 4 years ago. I made it clear that if they made me choose, they would lose. I don't bend to dictators who they controlling my life, and neither should you.
If this guy is a good man and has truly changed, then it's up to you to decide if you want to take a chance on him. Have a secret relationship, if you're scared of them disowning you. And if they disown you because you've made a decision AS AN ADULT and have proven you won't be controlled by them, then do you actually want those people in your life?
OPโs post history tho ???
End it if she won't compromise. Not worth an unwanted pregnancy or worse again, an STI.