She wants you to give her the a-ok to go and cheat on you, so she doesn’t have to be the bad guy. She is gaslighting you, what she did is not okay and you didn’t ruin anything, or do anything wrong.
You need to leave her and cut her out of your life. Change your locks, keep your dog, and don’t talk to her again. It’s clear she does not give a single shit about you or how you feel and will continue to try to have her cake and eat it too. She will choose whatever she wants over you and your feelings, and wants to have no shame about it.
Now she’s going to try to coerce you into shoving your perfectly valid concerns away so she doesn’t have to feel guilty for her shit actions. She trickle truthed you, and would not surprise me in the least if she had sex with him and is lying to you about it, trying to flip it around on you. This woman is toxic and does not have your best interests in mind. Stop wasting your time on her and take care of yourself.
You break up with him. He's not someone you want to be with: this is a fundamental incompatibility, and should you get pregnant he would not be there with you – at best you'd be hiding it from him, and at worst he'd be calling you a murderer. Don't try to fix him, just go.
As a Christian I couldn’t date an atheist but could date a non-Christian (not preferred).
That being said if you aren’t a Christian that’s okay but don’t try to change yourself. Don’t stay with him in hopes you can regain your faith. He has to respect you aren’t a Christian and be willing to meet you in the middle, if not find someone else.
There are plenty of Christians and non Christian alike who would have no problems with your beliefs.
Variety is the spice of life. If you have feelings ask to be exclusive.
Absolutely, she doesn't believe me though.
This is abuse. Not pranks. You should be scared. You should tell your family everything, make a plan, and run.
She’s 24
Probably brother’s wife’s sister.
She wants you to give her the a-ok to go and cheat on you, so she doesn’t have to be the bad guy. She is gaslighting you, what she did is not okay and you didn’t ruin anything, or do anything wrong.
You need to leave her and cut her out of your life. Change your locks, keep your dog, and don’t talk to her again. It’s clear she does not give a single shit about you or how you feel and will continue to try to have her cake and eat it too. She will choose whatever she wants over you and your feelings, and wants to have no shame about it.
Now she’s going to try to coerce you into shoving your perfectly valid concerns away so she doesn’t have to feel guilty for her shit actions. She trickle truthed you, and would not surprise me in the least if she had sex with him and is lying to you about it, trying to flip it around on you. This woman is toxic and does not have your best interests in mind. Stop wasting your time on her and take care of yourself.
You break up with him. He's not someone you want to be with: this is a fundamental incompatibility, and should you get pregnant he would not be there with you – at best you'd be hiding it from him, and at worst he'd be calling you a murderer. Don't try to fix him, just go.
As a Christian I couldn’t date an atheist but could date a non-Christian (not preferred).
That being said if you aren’t a Christian that’s okay but don’t try to change yourself. Don’t stay with him in hopes you can regain your faith. He has to respect you aren’t a Christian and be willing to meet you in the middle, if not find someone else.
There are plenty of Christians and non Christian alike who would have no problems with your beliefs.
Guess we just have to agree to disagree