Ok. I think I’ll do that. I might not be thinking straight too since I’m not thinking from her perspective but some space might be the best decision for now.
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Firstly I would warn you that dating where you work often does not go well. However, if you want something with the first guy, then yes find an excuse to stop by around the time he gets off work. If he is serious he can take it from there. Good luck either way.
One thing I've learned is that issues of trust must be balanced in a relationship. I don't see that balance in your relationship with your husband because he demands to read your messages from other people but doesn't trust you with the same information about himself.
My experience is that people that need that amount of control will continue to escalate their need for control to some intolerable or terrible level.
I'm a guest in my adults children's houses. And I'd never ever go over without an invite. It's rude. They are still adjusting to parenthood. Let them. My parents on-line 100 miles from me. They only get to visit occasionally. Neither of them would lament their relationship with their grandchildren. My daughter lives 15 minutes away with my grand daughter. I visit once or twice a month. Because THEY are a family in their own right. Step back, let your son and dil take the lead and I very much suspect it will be appreciated and you will be more welcome.
You sound like a creep dude.
Ok. I think I’ll do that. I might not be thinking straight too since I’m not thinking from her perspective but some space might be the best decision for now.
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Firstly I would warn you that dating where you work often does not go well. However, if you want something with the first guy, then yes find an excuse to stop by around the time he gets off work. If he is serious he can take it from there. Good luck either way.
This post is longer than your relationship. Just break it off dude. Doesn’t sound like she’s worth the effort.
One thing I've learned is that issues of trust must be balanced in a relationship. I don't see that balance in your relationship with your husband because he demands to read your messages from other people but doesn't trust you with the same information about himself.
My experience is that people that need that amount of control will continue to escalate their need for control to some intolerable or terrible level.
You have in fact broken up. She's not talking to you. That tweet was directed at you.
Congrats on your major dick comment
I'm a guest in my adults children's houses. And I'd never ever go over without an invite. It's rude. They are still adjusting to parenthood. Let them. My parents on-line 100 miles from me. They only get to visit occasionally. Neither of them would lament their relationship with their grandchildren. My daughter lives 15 minutes away with my grand daughter. I visit once or twice a month. Because THEY are a family in their own right. Step back, let your son and dil take the lead and I very much suspect it will be appreciated and you will be more welcome.