She doesn't contribute, by her own words, he is paying almost all the bills. She sent specific as to the finances but let's assume rent and all utilities. She pays for her phone and gas. There may be student loans on there too.
No one said anything about human life correlating to pay. If he is paying the bulk of the bills and doing the daily chores (I assume since OP works 12+ hours per day and wouldn't have the time), how much is OP contributing to the relationship?
God that sounds like what I’m feeling right now. It’s so exhausting having to do all the daily things in our apartment because he claims he can’t or doesn’t want to. Not only that, but the feeling of being burnt out.
Where was she before you moved in together?
She doesn't contribute, by her own words, he is paying almost all the bills. She sent specific as to the finances but let's assume rent and all utilities. She pays for her phone and gas. There may be student loans on there too.
No one said anything about human life correlating to pay. If he is paying the bulk of the bills and doing the daily chores (I assume since OP works 12+ hours per day and wouldn't have the time), how much is OP contributing to the relationship?
The same reason a dog licks his balls. Because he can.
You know what you need to do.
The faster you pull off the bandaid the less painful it is.
You need professional help, listen to your family, they are right.
That’s obvious! ?
God that sounds like what I’m feeling right now. It’s so exhausting having to do all the daily things in our apartment because he claims he can’t or doesn’t want to. Not only that, but the feeling of being burnt out.