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Ok, so he said hurtful things to you and got mad at you for something he thinks you MIGHT do? Sounds like he wants out and to make it your fault. Or he just needs you to feel guilty, disoriented, he wants you to beg and prove his worth to him.
Whatever haze of manipulation and gaslighting you're in now will dissolve once you're no contact with him, and then you'd see not fighting for him is the only way to go.
Not reacting to any accusations or speculations is the best way to go. If he has any history of voilence, it also makes sense to go away and take time to think about your situation rationally.
I know its hurtful but if someone wants out you should really let them go. To me, this is one of the better ways to leave. Not blaming anyone or dragging anyone through the mud.
“Well it's nothing but whatever, I'll delete the conversation, cut her off, and we can start couple's therapy.” Oh man. Not even a question that she's cheating.
How she's handling this is really unfair to you; I don't know how you start healing from something when you don't even know the extent of what's been done to you. I wouldn't agree to couples counseling or consider continuing the relationship if she can't give you the decency of confessing what she's done.
His “Really?” might’ve been a joke that fell flat. He might lack confidence and figured that you’re having not rung was a sign you’d lost interest. It’s best not to assume negative connotations. It sounds like the conversation went more smoothly after that. He might be getting the same negative advice from friends as you are. Just keep talking to him. If this sort of thing comes up again there might be a problem.
3 grand can be a lot of money or it can be very little. If his mom is using the credit card for rent 3k could be understandable. If he has a new graphics card, door-dashes food, etc. well 3k is crazy to spend on that.
I do think knowing what the 3k was spent on is important because some of this could also be interest depending on the rate he has.
As for living together, I’d think long and naked about it as it sounds like you’ll be the primary lease holder and I could see a universe where he isn’t paying rent to pay off the credit cards and you have to pay all of rent. If that’s something you are comfortable with than go for it.
Overall, I’m 29 and I have to say it would be a red flag for me if my SO told me they had 16k in debt because “they forgot to check”. At 18 that makes sense, at almost 30, while living with someone who is presumably paying for food, other expenses, etc-it makes zero sense.
I read in her story that she only told him once before. Then in her edit says that he stopped for a bit and when he did it again she told him again in detail. I assume she really only brought it up twice.
Honestly this sounds like my ex. He wanted me to go look at buildings and sites by myself with a newborn. I prepped the menu and researched even. Planned the kitchen and expresso machines. Prepped cold coffee every weekend to experiment with. Tasted baked goods to source. Made spreadsheets and cost analysis. He quit his job when I was off maternity leave. Divorced me once the business plan was made and ready to go. Just so he could leave me off the paperwork. Oh, also took my 100+ board games for his library. Selfish and willing to use others for free labor. Never blinked an eye when I complained because it was his dream and I was a supportive wife. Never have seen a cent.
Ok, so he said hurtful things to you and got mad at you for something he thinks you MIGHT do? Sounds like he wants out and to make it your fault. Or he just needs you to feel guilty, disoriented, he wants you to beg and prove his worth to him.
Whatever haze of manipulation and gaslighting you're in now will dissolve once you're no contact with him, and then you'd see not fighting for him is the only way to go.
Not reacting to any accusations or speculations is the best way to go. If he has any history of voilence, it also makes sense to go away and take time to think about your situation rationally.
Good luck!
I know its hurtful but if someone wants out you should really let them go. To me, this is one of the better ways to leave. Not blaming anyone or dragging anyone through the mud.
“Well it's nothing but whatever, I'll delete the conversation, cut her off, and we can start couple's therapy.” Oh man. Not even a question that she's cheating.
How she's handling this is really unfair to you; I don't know how you start healing from something when you don't even know the extent of what's been done to you. I wouldn't agree to couples counseling or consider continuing the relationship if she can't give you the decency of confessing what she's done.
His “Really?” might’ve been a joke that fell flat. He might lack confidence and figured that you’re having not rung was a sign you’d lost interest. It’s best not to assume negative connotations. It sounds like the conversation went more smoothly after that. He might be getting the same negative advice from friends as you are. Just keep talking to him. If this sort of thing comes up again there might be a problem.
3 grand can be a lot of money or it can be very little. If his mom is using the credit card for rent 3k could be understandable. If he has a new graphics card, door-dashes food, etc. well 3k is crazy to spend on that.
I do think knowing what the 3k was spent on is important because some of this could also be interest depending on the rate he has.
As for living together, I’d think long and naked about it as it sounds like you’ll be the primary lease holder and I could see a universe where he isn’t paying rent to pay off the credit cards and you have to pay all of rent. If that’s something you are comfortable with than go for it.
Overall, I’m 29 and I have to say it would be a red flag for me if my SO told me they had 16k in debt because “they forgot to check”. At 18 that makes sense, at almost 30, while living with someone who is presumably paying for food, other expenses, etc-it makes zero sense.
I read in her story that she only told him once before. Then in her edit says that he stopped for a bit and when he did it again she told him again in detail. I assume she really only brought it up twice.
Honestly this sounds like my ex. He wanted me to go look at buildings and sites by myself with a newborn. I prepped the menu and researched even. Planned the kitchen and expresso machines. Prepped cold coffee every weekend to experiment with. Tasted baked goods to source. Made spreadsheets and cost analysis. He quit his job when I was off maternity leave. Divorced me once the business plan was made and ready to go. Just so he could leave me off the paperwork. Oh, also took my 100+ board games for his library. Selfish and willing to use others for free labor. Never blinked an eye when I complained because it was his dream and I was a supportive wife. Never have seen a cent.