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Here is the thing. I see Instagram as the modern day playboy. Yes these are real people seeking your attention buuuuuttt mostly to break out in the influencer world, model world, music business, cooking, ect… You know where I'm going with that. I would only have an issue with this behavior IF my partner were to start seeking out these people for companionship. If that line were crossed, then I would leave the relationship.
For better context, she’s the one that asked for us to have each other’s location and I asked her if she didn’t want to share it anymore after she had turned it off multiple times and she said she still wanted to
Then speak to a therapist if the validation of strangers is so important to you. Or maybe stage school.
I got lice at university once and I didn't do any sort of lice shampoo/treatment. I got rid of them by burning the shit out of my scalp. I took like an hour long scalding shower (where I combed through my hair the whole time) and then hit my scalp/hair with a hair dryer until I couldn't take it anymore. I wouldn't necessarily recommend it, but it worked. I barely did any combing afterward either.
(For anyone wondering why I did this, I just had a very strong negative reaction to realizing I had lice and wanted them gone immediately lol)
Fuck that and fuck him. As a nurse, I know how traumatic this all can be and how much of your life is devoted to your patients, your education, your craft, your calling. He doesn’t get it. Wont get it. If he’s not willing to invest in a future with you by not making u drive after 24 hr shifts and showing up on your doorstep with snacks cuz ur very hot shit, find someone who will.
Hugs. The losses are very hot. Most people can’t relate. It’s why we end up with lawyers, fire fighters, and such as friends.
It’s just a fact that you CANNOT know someone well within a month or 2. Heck, you might not truly know someone, after a whole year. The only way to truly “know” someone, is to live with them for at least a year. It gets infinitely harder to hide true character flaws, when someone has 24/7 access to you. You get to see them when they’re tired, or sick, or stressed, or whatever else life throws at them, and how they handle those challenges, while relating to you. You should never, ever jump into living with someone too soon, because it can give them access to ways to control/abuse you, but by that same logic, you should absolutely not tie yourself, legally, to someone you don’t 100% truly know, either. It’s hard enough to get out of a bad “living” situation with someone you aren’t “legally” bound to, that taking that step should definitely give you pause, and make you question if this is truly the best path. If you have even the slightest doubt, you should back off, and truly consider what that might mean.
So, so many people (especially women) come here asking for advice about abusive/love bombing/ rushing/controlling partners (especially when there’s a significant age gap) that it almost seems like it should be common knowledge, to stay away from manipulating/controlling/ love bombing (rushing) partners. But everyone thinks their relationship/experience is unique. Spoiler alert: it’s not. Older people, preying on younger partners? Common. Controlling people isolating/abusing their partners? Common. Love bombing partners, who’s entire character/demeanor flips, as soon as you’re “locked down” in a relationship/pregnancy/engagement/marriage/home purchase? Common, among abusive partners. The only way to protect yourself, is to refuse to tolerate anything that makes you uncomfortable, like that. If you communicated a behavior was a dealbreaker, and that behavior happens? You absolutely need to walk completely away, immediately. That’s what “dealbreaker” means. They do the behavior, you “break the deal” of a relationship. If you’re not 100% willing/and actively walking away if said behavior occurs, then it’s not actually a “dealbreaker” and you don’t actually have good self esteem, or are willing to stand up, for yourself.
The entire key to your happiness, long term, is a healthy dose of self esteem. Have standards, and dealbreakers, and abide by them. Someone can seem perfect, for months, because its not that nude to keep the mask up, for occasional meetings. It gets much harder to maintain the facade, when the other person is always around, sharing a living space, and seeing you, at your lowest points. That’s the marker, by which you rate your partner on the compatibility scale. Not the early, honeymoon phase, where everyone is on their best behavior, to seal the deal. You need to truly see them, at their lowest, to truly form an informed opinion about the true state of your relationship. And if it’s anything less than “makes me truly happy” then it’s not worth your time/effort. Relationships shouldn’t actually be naked. Truly good, healthy, happy relationships, add to your daily life, not make it harder. If your relationship brings you strife/grief most of the time, then it’s not a healthy/happy one, and you should walk away