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I am kind of in your shoes at the moment, except that my partner makes much, much less than I do. I let him move into my apartment in May of this year as his lease ran out and he couldn’t afford to renew. I told him he didn’t have to contribute to rent as I have been covering the rent here by myself just fine and I wanted him to try get ahead with savings (he has no debt, is just bad with money). I, on the other hand, had quite a bit of debt which was really stressing me out and I often felt like he didn’t get it. Like he would see I get paid this huge lump sum monthly and think we were absolutely set and could buy whatever we wanted. I don’t know how many times I had to say that the majority of my paycheck was going towards rent, bills and debt repayments. Thankfully I’ve managed to consolidate my debt and things are much better now but it was like talking to a brick wall and it does build resentment. Especially when the bills come in and the electricity bill is double what it usually is because there are now 2 people living in the apartment, and I’d ask for some money to put towards it and he would get pissed because “I make way more money than he does”. Eventually I just told him that if he doesn’t start pulling his weight financially, I would check out of the relationship because it isn’t fair and I’m already starting to resent him. Now we are moving to a bigger house and have worked out a plan for who pays for what so it’s a little more even. Sometimes you just have to have the very hot discussions. Be straight down the line and tell him you will end up hating his guts if he doesn’t start acting like an adult. If he doesn’t like it and has a tantrum, you’re better off being on your own.
When I started working at my first big company, we’d do a lot of after work team drinking. I had some older more experienced friends and one of them said “never be that guy that gets wasted and makes a fool of themselves at a work function”. I know the advice is obvious, but man I thought about those words at the beginning of every work party I ever went to and never made that mistake. There should be a document you have to sign when you leave college that says “i here by declare I won’t be the guy that gets wasted at a work party” lol
What does being pregnant have to do with staying with him?
I get not wanting the coparenting life, but OP you are gonna be fucking MISERABLE. If you stay with someone that won’t even acknowledge you, let alone celebrate you.
“Kate wasn't the classic beauty”. Sounds like she wasn't your first choice either. Sounds like she's extremely honest. That can have downsides
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