As someone whose father skipped out on child support, I would want my mom to have it because she has already spent it out of pocket while I was growing up. Unless your daughter paid for some of her basic necessities growing up, I would consider it your money.
This is tough because that viewpoint isn't going to jive with how she sees it. If you do stop giving it to her, your delivery is very important. At her age, I wasted a lot of money on useless stuff and really regret it now so you could help her avoid that. However, she's not going to like it.
I don't know if “forgive” is the right word, but I think this could potentially cause me to lose my attraction to someone in an irreparable way. Maybe not, but it seemed likely enough to mention
you feel like the more mature one because you probably are. Theres a reason women his own age wont date him and as you mature you're starting to see it.
I beg to differ. A concert is actually the most appropriate type of venue for risque outfits and creative attire. Have you actually ever even BEEN to a concert? Doesn’t sound like it. You sound crazy controlling. No one has any right to control and coerce others to do what we want. I hope she realises it and leaves you.
You’re right her parents should have been supportive and happy for her but that wasn’t the reality and shouldn’t have been a surprise to her given her parents religious leanings. I wish every parent could be supportive of their children’s sexual orientation but life just isn’t that way.
The main point that the OP needs to find out is what now? Will her husband back up his sister and will the parents soften their stance? They can’t change what happened, the focus needs to be, is it fixable?
Do NOT move in with her. Frankly, you should consider taking some time apart. Your girlfriend sounds like she has some major internal work to do before she is capable of a healthy long-term relationship. Moving in together would be an utter disaster.
Glad that you found the help that you needed. Good luck on your path!
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As someone whose father skipped out on child support, I would want my mom to have it because she has already spent it out of pocket while I was growing up. Unless your daughter paid for some of her basic necessities growing up, I would consider it your money.
This is tough because that viewpoint isn't going to jive with how she sees it. If you do stop giving it to her, your delivery is very important. At her age, I wasted a lot of money on useless stuff and really regret it now so you could help her avoid that. However, she's not going to like it.
Awesome! Go and spend time with your family and friends. Have the photographer still come and take family photos!
I don't know if “forgive” is the right word, but I think this could potentially cause me to lose my attraction to someone in an irreparable way. Maybe not, but it seemed likely enough to mention
you feel like the more mature one because you probably are. Theres a reason women his own age wont date him and as you mature you're starting to see it.
I beg to differ. A concert is actually the most appropriate type of venue for risque outfits and creative attire. Have you actually ever even BEEN to a concert? Doesn’t sound like it. You sound crazy controlling. No one has any right to control and coerce others to do what we want. I hope she realises it and leaves you.
Good to know. Thanks!
You’re right her parents should have been supportive and happy for her but that wasn’t the reality and shouldn’t have been a surprise to her given her parents religious leanings. I wish every parent could be supportive of their children’s sexual orientation but life just isn’t that way.
The main point that the OP needs to find out is what now? Will her husband back up his sister and will the parents soften their stance? They can’t change what happened, the focus needs to be, is it fixable?
Do NOT move in with her. Frankly, you should consider taking some time apart. Your girlfriend sounds like she has some major internal work to do before she is capable of a healthy long-term relationship. Moving in together would be an utter disaster.