Either you have left out critical information (like something really bad you did that she is struggling to get over) or you are being manipulated. Itโs not fair to keep giving you mixed messages like this. Giving someone just enough to keep them around for your own benefit is wrong. This needs to be brought to her attention
Exactly! You could be walking out in a bra and a miniskirt. Hell yeah could walk out in your birthday suit, and it still doesn't mean you want to be sexualized. This type of behavior is atrocious.
Just run – literally do not tell him your plans and secure a safe way to get away from him.
Someone who is willing to gaslight you to this extent has no shame and you're not going to get any traction calling him out.
Either you have left out critical information (like something really bad you did that she is struggling to get over) or you are being manipulated. Itโs not fair to keep giving you mixed messages like this. Giving someone just enough to keep them around for your own benefit is wrong. This needs to be brought to her attention
Donโt even acknowledge it. And shut him down.
Not scamming anyone. I made an offer, it was accepted, and I plan to fullfill my obligations.
Exactly! You could be walking out in a bra and a miniskirt. Hell yeah could walk out in your birthday suit, and it still doesn't mean you want to be sexualized. This type of behavior is atrocious.