You're right, I get it. But me self harming has been a coping mechanism to panic attacks unfortunately:( but ofc fights with him aggravate it. I like to believe he's also brought out the best in me at times but clearly he also brings out the absolute worst.
Thank you, I updated the post. I had already talked to her about all of this and it didn't really get us anywhere. I agree, communication is key in any relationship.
Do you believe that 15 year olds are mature adults who are legally able to make important decisions? No?
Strangely, 19 year olds are legally able to make those important choices for a year.
One is starting highschool, one is starting college.
One still lives at home, one might have already started their life.
We get it, you have pedo tendencies but you don’t want to admit it to yourself so you have just convinced yourself somehow that pedo shit like that is perfectly normal. But it’s really really really not and you should really consider therapy.
I don’t think I’ve read anything like that here; most people are saying she should’ve told him before they got married, or at the very least discuss this with him and not brush aside his feelings.
You're right, I get it. But me self harming has been a coping mechanism to panic attacks unfortunately:( but ofc fights with him aggravate it. I like to believe he's also brought out the best in me at times but clearly he also brings out the absolute worst.
Thank you, I updated the post. I had already talked to her about all of this and it didn't really get us anywhere. I agree, communication is key in any relationship.
Judging people isn’t a good human attribute.
That’s… not what work husband/wife means.
That’s… not what work husband/wife means.
I'm baffled people actually think this is real and not fake.
Do you believe that 15 year olds are mature adults who are legally able to make important decisions? No?
Strangely, 19 year olds are legally able to make those important choices for a year.
One is starting highschool, one is starting college.
One still lives at home, one might have already started their life.
We get it, you have pedo tendencies but you don’t want to admit it to yourself so you have just convinced yourself somehow that pedo shit like that is perfectly normal. But it’s really really really not and you should really consider therapy.
I don’t think I’ve read anything like that here; most people are saying she should’ve told him before they got married, or at the very least discuss this with him and not brush aside his feelings.