Repeat after me: “I am not a breeding mare and will not be treated as such.”
Your boyfriend is a walking red flag…have you noticed any other antisemitic, racist, sexist, despicable opinions? They are rarely found alone, but are rather running in packs, like their “alpha” owners…
You do nothing. She presumably wants the job for more money, skill building, or more experience and a relationship of one month doesn't take any precedence over that.
Many people have successful relationships despite busy careers. When there's a will to spend time together, you can find a way.
If you think Reddit’s so weird go ask someone in your personal life for advice. I’m sure they’ll think you’re just as trashy as the rest of us, and your sister, do.
Something I definitely have been considering but of course not something I want to do, going to speak to him see what we can come up with if it’s nothing then may have to reconsider. Thank you!
Sorry but doesnt sound like he is very interested
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Repeat after me: “I am not a breeding mare and will not be treated as such.”
Your boyfriend is a walking red flag…have you noticed any other antisemitic, racist, sexist, despicable opinions? They are rarely found alone, but are rather running in packs, like their “alpha” owners…
I would bring it up by saying you think there was a fraudulent charge on your account because someone spent $350 at D&G and watch him squirm. :3
I’m sorry OP…. he sounds like a pos. Update us when you know more.
You do nothing. She presumably wants the job for more money, skill building, or more experience and a relationship of one month doesn't take any precedence over that.
Many people have successful relationships despite busy careers. When there's a will to spend time together, you can find a way.
You should dump him.
He doesn't want to marry you. He didn't purpose
Wait is that comment casual sexism or misogynistic?
Sure, but you would let your own sister on the street just because it is inconvenient for you to live! with a baby?
Well then you need to tell her you are happy stop by somewhere for food, but you CANNOT pay, and stick to it.
You read my mind exactly!
Fair point. On the other hand a lot of people take anything they can as a sign to keep trying because instead of “no” they hear, “I would except…”
I’m seeing someone -> well they aren’t here are they?
I’m in love -> you’ll still be in love tomorrow, they don’t have to know
I’m engaged -> you’re not married yet!
These are all conversations I’ve overheard myself
Agree. Gaslighting is so unsafe.
I second this
I genuinely don't know who's worse here: her for demanding he end a longstanding friendship based on a past teen crush or him for agreeing to do that.
I never said any of that. You’re editorializing!
If you think Reddit’s so weird go ask someone in your personal life for advice. I’m sure they’ll think you’re just as trashy as the rest of us, and your sister, do.
Bro was for sure a bully in high school.
So he basically is mad because you‘re not a mom and a sex doll at the same time.
You know what to do.
You're 23. What's the rush? Enjoy your life; marriage can wait.
Thanks. Appreciate it.
Something I definitely have been considering but of course not something I want to do, going to speak to him see what we can come up with if it’s nothing then may have to reconsider. Thank you!