When I say I'm the problem I'm just referring to me enabling her. If I'm not doing that, then the ball is in her court. Outside of that I do feel like it's entirely her taking advantage of me.
So yes we absolutely need to set boundaries, but that does begin when I stop enabling her – hence me being the current problem. If that doesn't sound quite right maybe it's better to say that I'm the one that has to take action to fix this.
I handled it well but it would have been nice if he did the right thing too. I think men are raised differently. Men are protectors, right? Or what's your role again? Shit on women? I've met a full spectrum of men in my life. There are some honorable guys who try to do the right thing as much as they can.
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Why are you guys together if you keep having fights like this?
When I say I'm the problem I'm just referring to me enabling her. If I'm not doing that, then the ball is in her court. Outside of that I do feel like it's entirely her taking advantage of me.
So yes we absolutely need to set boundaries, but that does begin when I stop enabling her – hence me being the current problem. If that doesn't sound quite right maybe it's better to say that I'm the one that has to take action to fix this.
I handled it well but it would have been nice if he did the right thing too. I think men are raised differently. Men are protectors, right? Or what's your role again? Shit on women? I've met a full spectrum of men in my life. There are some honorable guys who try to do the right thing as much as they can.