You don't need to be single you just need the help of a professional to work through your trauma so you don't sabotage your present and future life because of your past
Trauma informed therapist. Got it. Thank Youuuuu so much. I didn't know there was a difference between a regular therapist n trauma informed therapist. That's perfect.
If he does all the work of them, she may easily give them up. I was surprised at my ex, I was ready to dig in about the dogs, and one was technically community property, the other premarital and mine. But he was so afraid I’d take the cats that were premarital and his, that it was the first thing we agreed to. I loved his cats and they loved me, but I could definitely let them go and find a better life for myself.
I was in the same position, although I had made every mortgage payment and he wasn’t on the title, he was entitled to enough equity that a refi would be necessary at least.
Thank goodness we were only married 6 years. If we got to 10, apparently he would have had a stake in my retirement and then how could I take care of my family now that I’m the sole breadwinner in my new life?
Fortunately he gave up the house pretty readily, too.
You don't need to be single you just need the help of a professional to work through your trauma so you don't sabotage your present and future life because of your past
RAINN has a bottling for getting help. Please leave. He will hurt you again. Next time you may not on-line through it. Please get out of there.
Trauma informed therapist. Got it. Thank Youuuuu so much. I didn't know there was a difference between a regular therapist n trauma informed therapist. That's perfect.
Be prepared for there to be resentment that could have been avoided by being more honest up front
Don't worry, there's a lot of clowns in the late teens and early 20s. Good luck, it likely won't be your last.
If he does all the work of them, she may easily give them up. I was surprised at my ex, I was ready to dig in about the dogs, and one was technically community property, the other premarital and mine. But he was so afraid I’d take the cats that were premarital and his, that it was the first thing we agreed to. I loved his cats and they loved me, but I could definitely let them go and find a better life for myself.
I was in the same position, although I had made every mortgage payment and he wasn’t on the title, he was entitled to enough equity that a refi would be necessary at least.
Thank goodness we were only married 6 years. If we got to 10, apparently he would have had a stake in my retirement and then how could I take care of my family now that I’m the sole breadwinner in my new life?
Fortunately he gave up the house pretty readily, too.
We're closer to just short of 6 months in to the relationship, but yeah, it sucks.
No, there’s nothing here to fight for at all. This controlling man baby is never going to treat you with the respect you deserve.