You've got this! The key is retraining your brain. Everytime you think of him, change the subject in your head, get up and clean something, go for a run, call a friend (but don't talk about him), do some boxing moves, cook a complicated recipe. Your brain needs to learn it can live without him in it… and so do you!
Wtf
You've got this! The key is retraining your brain. Everytime you think of him, change the subject in your head, get up and clean something, go for a run, call a friend (but don't talk about him), do some boxing moves, cook a complicated recipe. Your brain needs to learn it can live without him in it… and so do you!
You may have made a mistake, but I don't think it's that you didn't express your “love and affection”. Listen to what she said:
someone better and who she is able to have more fun with
Sounds like you were looking for something serious or substantial and she was just trying to have fun.
More importantly…
best friend
Kind of sounds like maybe you wanted her to be more than that. Maybe she wasn't interested?
I fear for this woman he has been stalking safety as well.
When my innocent mind thought this was a parking issue, and he kept back ending you
Maybe have a close 3rd party vet it first and judge if it's in your interest to read it?