Normally when I read spicy or borderline derisive posts in this sub I try to do some introspection and see if I can put myself in OPs shoes to try and understand their perspective.
But this one…not gonna lie I just laughed. You're self-centered and a fool, and you're such a fool that you are totally blind to it.
So thanks for the laugh. All my best to your soon-to-be ex-gf, I really hope she finds someone that treats her well.
Tell your father. Don’t tell him when all of y’all are there, just you and him. Tell him exactly what you said here, including that your mother basically threatened you when you were a child and that’s why you didn’t tell him then. Don’t bother giving your mother a chance to come clean about it, if she wanted to do so she would have done so already, and there’s a chance (a far outside chance) that there’s still proof of the affair, and your father could use that if things go badly after y’all talk about it.
You need to leave. Give him a wake up call. If he wants you back he needs to help more. He may not realize everything you are doing to maintain the household and kids.
He's trying to use you.
Ignore the claims that he wants more…if he did he would ask for it. He would ask you to be his gf…instead he is asking you to clean and cook for him.
He wants what many men see as 'gf duties' aka a servant but without him committing.
Honestly the fact I really pity straight women by how so many think he wants you to cook/clean = he wants a relationship.
He shouldn’t have been communicating with someone who was underage. It’s weird.
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Normally when I read spicy or borderline derisive posts in this sub I try to do some introspection and see if I can put myself in OPs shoes to try and understand their perspective.
But this one…not gonna lie I just laughed. You're self-centered and a fool, and you're such a fool that you are totally blind to it.
So thanks for the laugh. All my best to your soon-to-be ex-gf, I really hope she finds someone that treats her well.
Tell your father. Don’t tell him when all of y’all are there, just you and him. Tell him exactly what you said here, including that your mother basically threatened you when you were a child and that’s why you didn’t tell him then. Don’t bother giving your mother a chance to come clean about it, if she wanted to do so she would have done so already, and there’s a chance (a far outside chance) that there’s still proof of the affair, and your father could use that if things go badly after y’all talk about it.
Happy cake day
You need to leave. Give him a wake up call. If he wants you back he needs to help more. He may not realize everything you are doing to maintain the household and kids.