My advice? Stop giving gifts. Just give him the money – he seems fine with it.
Some people don't like getting gifts – I'm one of them. There can be many reasons for this, and our culture really makes people feel bad for not wanting material things or being happy with whatever someone gets them, even if that means they now have a thing taking up space (which can even just be mental space if it's small) that they didn't really want.
Your relationship doesn't have to be based on gifts. It doesn't sound like he particularly expects you to give him any.
If giving is a vital part of your love-language, you can try giving things that are small, relatively inexpensive, and disposable. Baked goods and meals are good examples of these – surely there's things you know he likes to eat you could make for him? It still shows the effort and care without putting a lot of undue pressure on people to keep around material things.
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Is it ever acceptable to willingly cheat on your spouse?
Not that @chipmunkkid was proper for saying “just divorce”, but I’ll disagree with your stance on a divorce always completely blowing up your life.
Divorce may or may not be a simple decision depending on the circumstances, but once you’ve decided to cheat on your spouse you’ve broken the agreements of your relationship, meaning you’re silently ending your relationship.
Listen i get your point, but if you look into this it's way more “swollen”then you're picturing in your head. It's not like a preference between small and larger clits, they get very large during what she's talking about.
You're right, I re-read the post and I was probably projecting how I got picked on for anything I said. Deleted now.
My advice? Stop giving gifts. Just give him the money – he seems fine with it.
Some people don't like getting gifts – I'm one of them. There can be many reasons for this, and our culture really makes people feel bad for not wanting material things or being happy with whatever someone gets them, even if that means they now have a thing taking up space (which can even just be mental space if it's small) that they didn't really want.
Your relationship doesn't have to be based on gifts. It doesn't sound like he particularly expects you to give him any.
If giving is a vital part of your love-language, you can try giving things that are small, relatively inexpensive, and disposable. Baked goods and meals are good examples of these – surely there's things you know he likes to eat you could make for him? It still shows the effort and care without putting a lot of undue pressure on people to keep around material things.
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Is it ever acceptable to willingly cheat on your spouse?
Not that @chipmunkkid was proper for saying “just divorce”, but I’ll disagree with your stance on a divorce always completely blowing up your life.
Divorce may or may not be a simple decision depending on the circumstances, but once you’ve decided to cheat on your spouse you’ve broken the agreements of your relationship, meaning you’re silently ending your relationship.
Listen i get your point, but if you look into this it's way more “swollen”then you're picturing in your head. It's not like a preference between small and larger clits, they get very large during what she's talking about.