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It will definitely improve in time, it will get better and better every day. My best advice is to keep busy. If she asks you to grab coffee or get together, just be busy. Dont give her the time of day.
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Hello, idk what to say exactly besides this sounds honesty pretty normal. Check here for people's threesome gone bad stories. They almost always go bad in some way it seems. A main one is the guy being uncomfortable, nervous or even way to excited and then can't get hard. So go e yourself some slack here. She's seen you get hard lots I'm assuming. She knows you can. There was alot going on and this jjst isn't the major embarrassing thing that you're thinking it was.
I think you need to sort out your feelings, maybe make some notes, and have a real talk with her. I think it's obvious this isn't a physical issue. It's an emotional one. I'm thinking it surprised you in a very unexpected way to see her with another man. That's fair and valid. It's also how I'm pretty sure most dudes would feel. I think it also hurt your feelings that she wasn't immediately stopping when you were noticeably uncomfortable.
This is new territory for you both. If you come with love then there will be an answer here. It doesn't mean you need ti break up. It means this situation left you feeling uncomfortable and maybe less cared for. Ok so talk about that with her.
And don't do these things unless you're truly ready in every way. That includes a safe word or signal that means “stop immediately” and reading the horror stories to see what has already triggered others so that you can learn from their mistakes.
Also doing these things does mean it has potential to make you feel these ways. If you aren't ready to feel these ways, do not put them on the table by opening up yourself to these kind of situations…
Every couple who does this stiff needs rules, boundaries and understanding for eachother. When my husband and I did this, our rules were as follows: -no kissing between the other women and him -constant looking at eachother and eye contact throughout to be sure you can immediately tell of your person is not ok -condoms at all times with anyone but us two -nothing with the other person not present (so like if he said he's going to the bathroom, it's my que ti say oh I'll get us all some water or something ti excuse myself for a min too
See these things keep you in tune with eachother and make sure you both know what to expect at all times. You guys sound like you sorta went free for all and we'll hey that's how it goes bad EVERY TIME
He didn't even know himself that he was going through a psychotic breakdown. How was she supposed to know? It sounds like she stayed for as long as she could until he started being really nasty and told her to fuck off entirely.
Mental issues is not an excuse for being an asshole (through his own admission)
You're just 19 so of course you'll find someone else, hopefully someone who isn't abusive. But you may have to rejigger your mindset to where you can better recognize the warning signs. Someone with a healthy sense of self wouldn't be “controlling” and wouldn't have tolerated being insulted and beaten as you did. Maybe take some time to figure why you let yourself be victimized before you go out looking for love again.
Alright! Thanks for giving me some hope. I just hope it doesn't stay like this forever, hearing your story makes me a bit more optimistic though.
We're trying to just have fun… And I'd say it's working, still, that desire to make him cum is in my head.. I try not to show it. And it's nude to hide the disappointment when he doesn't haha..
I’m coming from the lifestyle and I agree with all of your actions. You aren’t being controlling. Controlling behavior is using manipulation and leverage to force something. This is clearly just the consequences of him ignoring your healthy boundary.
He has exposed you to several potential STDs including HIV. You don’t know these other guys, and you don’t know who they are hooking up with.
Please get an STD check for your own health and safety.
Don’t let sunk cost fallacy keep you in an obviously unhealthy relationship any longer than you already have been. It might feel like throwing away a 15 year relationship, but it is just throwing away a cheater and a lair.
That 15 year relationship happened. But all things good and bad must come to an end. This just happened to be the end of this phase of your life.
Go and find happiness, it is truly the best revenge.
Thanks for your reply. I honestly have no idea how his wife feels about all of this. I'm not sure what situation their marriage is in. He doesn't have a reputation for fooling around, but he does seem to have a lot of female friends that are conventionally attractive, which does cause me some concern. I don't think any of this is culminating in an affair, but it does bother me that I'm perceiving a mutual attraction and that there seems to be a desire to engage in that.