And exactly how many of your military family members moved for their spouse's employment? How many military spouses in your family never even had a career because they were SAHPs?
You can see what the military member is contributing to the family. Not not even you, who claims to have 3/4 of their family in the military, sees what their spouses are doing. That's how little SAHPs and supporting spouses are valued.
That's why I recommend people never become SAHPs. Always have your own education and career, and never sacrifice for your spouse's, because the working spouse will never appreciate the contribution the SAHP makes to the household. I'd never agree to be a military spouse or SAHP without my own prenup to protect everything I'm losing by not being able to build my own life and career.
You blast the music now. If they say anything, say “oh? I thought this was so fucking important to you!”
Well anything's possible but it's definitely uncommon
My christmas movie collection bags a pardon, lol
(Literally every stupid cheap chrismas movie out there suggesting people it is magical and romanting)
Is it time to have Alex back in our lives? Do I talk to Louis about this? How will Louis feel?
No.
Dont so that to him.
And exactly how many of your military family members moved for their spouse's employment? How many military spouses in your family never even had a career because they were SAHPs?
You can see what the military member is contributing to the family. Not not even you, who claims to have 3/4 of their family in the military, sees what their spouses are doing. That's how little SAHPs and supporting spouses are valued.
That's why I recommend people never become SAHPs. Always have your own education and career, and never sacrifice for your spouse's, because the working spouse will never appreciate the contribution the SAHP makes to the household. I'd never agree to be a military spouse or SAHP without my own prenup to protect everything I'm losing by not being able to build my own life and career.