Yes. It sounds like both of you owe each other an apology and he should stay with his mom until heโs able to take responsibility for his part of the argument. Yelling, name calling, & running away are all very immature.Sounds like you both need help learning communication skills on how to be direct and talk about your feelings and perceptions without yelling or being passive aggressive.
Yes. It sounds like both of you owe each other an apology and he should stay with his mom until heโs able to take responsibility for his part of the argument. Yelling, name calling, & running away are all very immature.Sounds like you both need help learning communication skills on how to be direct and talk about your feelings and perceptions without yelling or being passive aggressive.
I doubt he's actually hesitating. He's probably realising that you two want different things and are no longer on the same page. He doesn't have to justify his reasons for not wanting children. He doesn't have to give a reason so you can “fix” it.
You are going to have to come to a decision. Either you accept the relationship as is, or you leave and find someone who also wants to have children. If you stay, watch out for the parasite that is resentment.
You could get lucky and he comes around, but that's not something you should rely on nor is it something you should push. I doubt he's going to change his mind if he hasn't already.
I always wonder if this subreddit is mostly females.
Also had I taken this subreddits advice my relationship which improved with some work and has been great for the last year and a half or more my relationship would have ended.
Honestly not cool of her, OP has to make the call. I don't really know the full story. There are so many nuances.
I'm not excusing behavior but I'd say use this moment to carefully investigate past behaviour and occurences and make a decision that you feel best about.
Only the OP knows. It was childish yes. It's a flag that's all. You decide.
So live! your life how you want it. Don't drag someone else into your bullshit if you refuse to get better.
Yes. It sounds like both of you owe each other an apology and he should stay with his mom until heโs able to take responsibility for his part of the argument. Yelling, name calling, & running away are all very immature.Sounds like you both need help learning communication skills on how to be direct and talk about your feelings and perceptions without yelling or being passive aggressive.
Yes. It sounds like both of you owe each other an apology and he should stay with his mom until heโs able to take responsibility for his part of the argument. Yelling, name calling, & running away are all very immature.Sounds like you both need help learning communication skills on how to be direct and talk about your feelings and perceptions without yelling or being passive aggressive.
This is probably the best sex conversation to have with a new partner, tbh
Dating coworkers is trouble.
She's living in your head rent free.
I doubt he's actually hesitating. He's probably realising that you two want different things and are no longer on the same page. He doesn't have to justify his reasons for not wanting children. He doesn't have to give a reason so you can “fix” it.
You are going to have to come to a decision. Either you accept the relationship as is, or you leave and find someone who also wants to have children. If you stay, watch out for the parasite that is resentment.
You could get lucky and he comes around, but that's not something you should rely on nor is it something you should push. I doubt he's going to change his mind if he hasn't already.
You're a grown woman you can do what you want.
Why is she having another baby shower? I thought you only had one for the first child
Maybe he came on to your boyfriend?
Honestly my mind immediately jumped to BFF falling in love with fiance and trying it on with him. I think I've been on this sub too long.
I always wonder if this subreddit is mostly females.
Also had I taken this subreddits advice my relationship which improved with some work and has been great for the last year and a half or more my relationship would have ended.
Honestly not cool of her, OP has to make the call. I don't really know the full story. There are so many nuances.
I'm not excusing behavior but I'd say use this moment to carefully investigate past behaviour and occurences and make a decision that you feel best about.
Only the OP knows. It was childish yes. It's a flag that's all. You decide.