It means you were the one person he could accept in his heart. Your confidence and persistency made him realize you’re different than the others. You did the ,through thick and thin’ before you even got married. I fell in love with my boyfriend because he was the only guy who respected what I wanted. He accepted he couldn’t make me fall in love with him so he stayed around as a friend. Because he stayed, because he valued me as a person and not girlfriend potential. We’ve been together over 5 years
No just somebody with a shit family who knows what its like for their partner to try and force a relationship and to force me to spend time with narcissistic vampires because “That's what family does.”
Sorry if I think a partner should support each other not throw a fit and get another glass of wine. If it had been your families wedding he would be in the wrong. Or if it was your family wedding and he was the one who wanted to get wine he would be wrong.
But you want to nuke your marriage over you acting like an ass be my guest.
It is highly likely your fiancee found out due to a confession from your “friend” that he has always been and still is romantically comnected to you and perhaps went to far with what he said. Or, even likely told your fiance he was going to shoot his shot and could not live! with himself if he didn't at least try. Based on the way your friend worded his final message, it seems like he had feelings henkept buried for a long long time.
You will probably never know the reason, but I wouldn't be surprised if this is the case. Maybe one day your fiancee soon to be husband will tell you, but he is likely protecting you both.
This is not not and uncommon thing, I have said it before and I will say it again, if a man and a woman spend a significant time with each other one and one, one or both of them WILL eventually develop romantic interest in the other on some level, especially if there is initial sexual attraction. But for some reason, when this fact is stated, many people like to bury their head in the sand and pretend it doesn't happen.
Being a full time working, single parent is doable. I know that personally.
Don't allow her to have custody of the kids. You stay in the house, she leaves and goes to live with her boyfriend. Let her know she can come round to have dinner with the kids 4 nights a week and bath and put them to bed. Monday – Thursday. Organise a day with each set of grandparents one sat one Sunday, join your parents for lunch/dinner. It'll give you time to get the house and wasjhinh straight. Even meal prep for 3 out of the 5 days in the week.
Just let her go, don't mess with the murky world she's going to. Save yourself and your kids.
…she needs a new stylist, like, yesterday. One who knows how to work with curly hair, not against it. Curly hair can be fussy, you can't just go to supercuts and get it handled right. But that's more of a long term fix.
In the short term, I would suggest focusing on the other things you find attractive about her. Her eyes, her lips, her hands, whatever. Find other traits and pay attention to that instead of worrying about her hair.
Thank you. You’re right. It is unrealistic. I needed to hear that.
It means you were the one person he could accept in his heart. Your confidence and persistency made him realize you’re different than the others. You did the ,through thick and thin’ before you even got married. I fell in love with my boyfriend because he was the only guy who respected what I wanted. He accepted he couldn’t make me fall in love with him so he stayed around as a friend. Because he stayed, because he valued me as a person and not girlfriend potential. We’ve been together over 5 years
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No just somebody with a shit family who knows what its like for their partner to try and force a relationship and to force me to spend time with narcissistic vampires because “That's what family does.”
Sorry if I think a partner should support each other not throw a fit and get another glass of wine. If it had been your families wedding he would be in the wrong. Or if it was your family wedding and he was the one who wanted to get wine he would be wrong.
But you want to nuke your marriage over you acting like an ass be my guest.
It is highly likely your fiancee found out due to a confession from your “friend” that he has always been and still is romantically comnected to you and perhaps went to far with what he said. Or, even likely told your fiance he was going to shoot his shot and could not live! with himself if he didn't at least try. Based on the way your friend worded his final message, it seems like he had feelings henkept buried for a long long time.
You will probably never know the reason, but I wouldn't be surprised if this is the case. Maybe one day your fiancee soon to be husband will tell you, but he is likely protecting you both.
This is not not and uncommon thing, I have said it before and I will say it again, if a man and a woman spend a significant time with each other one and one, one or both of them WILL eventually develop romantic interest in the other on some level, especially if there is initial sexual attraction. But for some reason, when this fact is stated, many people like to bury their head in the sand and pretend it doesn't happen.
Fight for custody of those kids.
Get firm evidence she is seeing her ex.
Being a full time working, single parent is doable. I know that personally.
Don't allow her to have custody of the kids. You stay in the house, she leaves and goes to live with her boyfriend. Let her know she can come round to have dinner with the kids 4 nights a week and bath and put them to bed. Monday – Thursday. Organise a day with each set of grandparents one sat one Sunday, join your parents for lunch/dinner. It'll give you time to get the house and wasjhinh straight. Even meal prep for 3 out of the 5 days in the week.
Just let her go, don't mess with the murky world she's going to. Save yourself and your kids.
…she needs a new stylist, like, yesterday. One who knows how to work with curly hair, not against it. Curly hair can be fussy, you can't just go to supercuts and get it handled right. But that's more of a long term fix.
In the short term, I would suggest focusing on the other things you find attractive about her. Her eyes, her lips, her hands, whatever. Find other traits and pay attention to that instead of worrying about her hair.