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He won't be any good.
That's how everyone is when they start a new activity they've never done before. There's no reason to think he'll be an exception, and it's shitty if his teachers taught him to give up on stuff that he didn't find easy.
He needs to stop thinking about how good he should be. Being “good” in bed is for experienced people, not beginners.
While some people treat sex as a sport, it's not what it's usually about.
It's about intimacy. It's about fun. It's about exploring together. It's about learning what your partner likes. It's about discovering what you like.
It doesn't have to be a performance. That's what porn actors do (and let me tell you, they have their own problems sometimes, they just don't end up on screen).
In the privacy of your bedroom? He's not expected to perform. He won't get judged for a bad performance. He's just expected to be there and possibly to not run away in the middle of things. Or it's ok if he runs, as long as he comes back with an explanation of what triggered it and how to avoid it in the future. That's it. That's all that's needed. Willingness.
First goal shouldn't certainly be successful PIV sex with both of you having an orgasm. It's about intimacy and feeling good, right? So first goal is being intimate, and do things that feel good. Actual penetration and orgasms are advanced topics that he'll have time to delve into when he feels comfortable with the basics.
The goal is to be together and feel good. Not orgasms. Not his penis staying hot. Not penetration. Sounds more reasonable, yes? Get naked, lie down, touch each other, yay! Goal achieved!
(Ok now, sex isn't that very hot, he'll be fine when he stops self sabotaging, but let's not tell him that you expect him to reach a certain level of competence eventually. Start small)
He clearly does not care about your feelings. He's caught up in whatever this is.
Block him as much as you can and don't have it constantly in your face. He sounds like a horrible person.