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One of my friends even said this was a red flag because he thinks he can buy me and my help in his house which makes me his employee which makes our relationship imbalanced.
As opposed to the numerous posts we see here almost daily about the guys who just expect their girlfriends, finances, wives or female roommates to do all their chores for free?? He sees you doing his chores as having value and he's willing to compensate you for that. So your friends think you'll be his dependent if you quit your job but his employee if he compensates you fairly?
What do you think? In your gut. Because yes, generally speaking, putting all one's financial eggs in their partner's basket is inherently risky, no question. You didn't say how long you've been dating or if you live together. There are certainly some things to consider but ultimately, everything is a risk. You can mitigate it as much as possible but any time you put your wellbeing in someone else's hands you really just have to address as many of the pitfalls as you can, be crystal clear on what each of you is agreeing to (like, actually put it in writing and both sign it so you have something concrete to refer to if an issue arises), crossyour fingers and jump.
So yeah, sit down with him, hash out exactly what each of you expects and then go for it. Don't make the mistake of waving him off with a 'whatever you say/want/do is fine by me!!' out of desperation or gratitude because that is what will lead to resentment and bad feelings down the road. It's okay to want to do this but it's also okay to want to keep your dignity and self-respect intact at the same time.
That’s called gaslighting
Thank you for the response. I definitely do agree that I’m probably not in the correct mind space to properly receive intimacy from the right woman if they presented themselves. It’s not what I’m looking for at all. I’m only interested in a casual relationship as of now because I’ve only ever once felt like a woman put in genuine effort to try and get to know me personally and not just try and find reasoning for why it is I don’t want to take a casual relationship to the ‘next level’. The pursuit of a relationship is meant to be 50/50 but far too often I feel like the only effort a woman has shown is sex and questions that ultimately only serve the purpose of validating their feelings. Honestly I think it’s why most guys aren’t into a hurry to get into an exclusive relationship though I do not know that for sure.