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Talk to her openly and tell her your concerns. It is up to her to decide if this incident is something she wants to postpone or cancel the wedding over. It should be something you talk through together and not you making a decision for her and just never giving an explanation.
Also, you need to learn to stand up for yourself. If it’s true that you lied about the lap dance, then it’s time to grow a backbone and be honest about things you don’t wanna do. Also consider if you wanna keep people around who’d push you into something like that.
Exactly
You acknowledge you were an absolute shit head and make zero excuses for it, replace or recover anything that can be replaced or recovered, and then consistently over time behave in a manner that is worthy of trust.
It took a few minutes to destroy trust. It will take a LOT longer to rebuild it. And if you push the issue, huff and puff about her not forgiving you, and continue to behave like an ass, it will take longer or simply not happen at all.
Now OP knows why he looked in the kiddie pool for a date – he hoped someone 12 years younger would put up with his tantrums.
Sure go ahead. But be aware, she may believe him over you. He is probably going to have a wild story that she may accept because it’s less painful than the truth. You stand about a 50/50 chance of ending up the evil one in his narrative. Since you say you aren’t really close, the likelihood that she believes him over you is higher than if you were bffs.
Late 20’s lesbian here, I have established roots in my local queer community, but that wasn’t something I had until my early 20’s. I promise as you get to spend more time in queer spaces and grow up into it a bit you’ll be in the know and have a much easier time navigating these situations.
If you or your partners are intoxicated while you’re having sex, everyone should be in the know. Their use is their business, but when you’re involved in it you should be informed. It’s best for everyone’s safety, and is important for consent.
If you’re ever unsure if a situation is okay, ask yourself if things are safe, people are of sound enough mind, and everything is consensual. If you can’t answer yes to those 3 things, something is not right.
I don’t think you’re over reacting, this is a good thing to sit down with them about and let them know that you expect to be looped in when they’re taking drugs, and that you may not want to participate if they do (or, maybe you watch and offer support/ light participation if they want to continue). Consent needs to be freely given, and freely withdrawn.
By the way, r/polyamory would be a great place to post this for advice from fellow non monogamous and polyam people. Hope to see you there!
Yeahh you kinda walked into that one.
To be honest it's a her issue with bob. She must know to respect your relationship and prioritize it.
She lied to you multiple times and that's a major red flag.
But all these actually happens a lot.
Not everyone is as morally tight as a few.
She must have slept with him and liked his company as a friend. This is the major screw up of hook up culture but it is what it is.
But perhaps she likes you much more as a partner and a person and cutting someone off because it might hinder the main relationship wasn't something she was prepared. Until now.
That's why things get trickier .
Honestly it's very difficult to leave some old fren because your partner senses actual issues. Could have been easier if she hasn't slept and realised later that he was just lurking as a friend to get in her pants.
Remain stoic in your boundaries and tell your thoughts in the best way possible.
Good luck.