very true feel like it's my fault for letting the red flags go by and for not thinking of therapy for him cause deep inside I feel he has more but just doesn't tell me
I mean everybody stated the obvious already. Have private conversations in private. So dumb to even want to have a serious conversation with somebody while their on the phone muted or otherwise. Thereās nothing you can do at this point and Iām scared to give you advice because you would most likely exercise it in the middle of mass or an office party or something ridiculous like that.
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Your response makes absolutely no logical sense at all and is utterly ridiculous. Cheating and flirting happens in plain sight literally all the time. He is questioning the intentions of this dude who was touching his girl inappropriately. His girl, even after realizing it wasnāt him touching her didnāt respond any sort of what they made him feel like she didnāt enjoy being touched. I had a friend touch my gfās thigh while I was at the bar getting drinks. She didnāt tell me that night but in the AM she was transparent and said she felt it was inappropriate and wanted to make sure I was aware of what took place. My former buddy flirted with my girl literally in open sight at a bar. This happens all the time. The fact she told me what happened and I was able to cut ties with the asshole is everything hitting on all cylinders. However, OP seems to have something off with this situation.
Yeah this shit pisses me off. A pedophile is someone who likes prepubescent kids. Someone who is fucking 20 might be dumb but they've, ya know, gone through PUBERTY and graduated (allegedly) high school and shit. I am all for shaming those who go after jailbait but let's use the correct words. Labeling someone as a pedo is a nuclear bomb strike compared to giving a friend shit for dating an ADULT who is younger than them.
Let's normalize pedophile meaning what it MEANS. There's a special place in hell for those people, folks dating younger folks who are adults do not apply.
Well first you absolutely need to speak to someone you trust. A family member. Can you online with someone else? Also show your mother and tell her you feel unsafe living with them
I just had a mini-panic at the thought of being at that wedding, getting the pictures back and realising that your āwhiteā clothes had actually turned grey or yellowish. Can you imagine. The horror.
If tipping isn't the expectation, then just do not tip. Follow the norms of wherever you on-line.
Don't worry so much if this one waitress was offended, she was probably just caught off guard. Relax, let it go – you didn't do anything malicious or with bad intent, so all is good.
Who is on the leasing agreement? If itās just you, she can kick rocks. If both of you are on the lease, itās more complicated.
You said your living situation is temporary so I donāt think any extreme measures are necessary, just wait her out for a couple months. If she isnāt willing to cooperate then just say you arenāt willing to babysit for her until you both come to an agreement. Donāt set yourself on fire to keep her warm.
Yes thatās true, I guess weāre both stuck in time at the moment and neither of us can move on. Iāll make a list of the two and compare
very true feel like it's my fault for letting the red flags go by and for not thinking of therapy for him cause deep inside I feel he has more but just doesn't tell me
I mean everybody stated the obvious already. Have private conversations in private. So dumb to even want to have a serious conversation with somebody while their on the phone muted or otherwise. Thereās nothing you can do at this point and Iām scared to give you advice because you would most likely exercise it in the middle of mass or an office party or something ridiculous like that.
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Your response makes absolutely no logical sense at all and is utterly ridiculous. Cheating and flirting happens in plain sight literally all the time. He is questioning the intentions of this dude who was touching his girl inappropriately. His girl, even after realizing it wasnāt him touching her didnāt respond any sort of what they made him feel like she didnāt enjoy being touched. I had a friend touch my gfās thigh while I was at the bar getting drinks. She didnāt tell me that night but in the AM she was transparent and said she felt it was inappropriate and wanted to make sure I was aware of what took place. My former buddy flirted with my girl literally in open sight at a bar. This happens all the time. The fact she told me what happened and I was able to cut ties with the asshole is everything hitting on all cylinders. However, OP seems to have something off with this situation.
Yeah this shit pisses me off. A pedophile is someone who likes prepubescent kids. Someone who is fucking 20 might be dumb but they've, ya know, gone through PUBERTY and graduated (allegedly) high school and shit. I am all for shaming those who go after jailbait but let's use the correct words. Labeling someone as a pedo is a nuclear bomb strike compared to giving a friend shit for dating an ADULT who is younger than them.
Let's normalize pedophile meaning what it MEANS. There's a special place in hell for those people, folks dating younger folks who are adults do not apply.
Make her an ex gf
Thank you. It's not the first time he made me feel like this.
He told our mutual friend he started liking his girl best friend after I left. I'm not sure he lied but at the same time it happened so fast
So he wants to schedule your break up for a year from now? Iād be looking for a new place, thatās some BS
Sex is important. You arenāt compatible. What you do with that is up to you
Well first you absolutely need to speak to someone you trust. A family member. Can you online with someone else? Also show your mother and tell her you feel unsafe living with them
I just had a mini-panic at the thought of being at that wedding, getting the pictures back and realising that your āwhiteā clothes had actually turned grey or yellowish. Can you imagine. The horror.
If tipping isn't the expectation, then just do not tip. Follow the norms of wherever you on-line.
Don't worry so much if this one waitress was offended, she was probably just caught off guard. Relax, let it go – you didn't do anything malicious or with bad intent, so all is good.
Totally get divorced and go online your life. You're way too young to be married. Go to school, have adventures, date lots of guys!
Who is on the leasing agreement? If itās just you, she can kick rocks. If both of you are on the lease, itās more complicated.
You said your living situation is temporary so I donāt think any extreme measures are necessary, just wait her out for a couple months. If she isnāt willing to cooperate then just say you arenāt willing to babysit for her until you both come to an agreement. Donāt set yourself on fire to keep her warm.
Sounds like everything is fine but youāre just over thinking this.
Idk why but yeah
āI guess there is a little piece of me trying to hold on because I fell like heād changeā
He's 36, he isn't changing.