Womenâď¸ I donât think you crossed the line, she canât take the joke, I always tease my girlfriend, she shouldâve just politely said to not make this kind of jokes with you ever again. Maybe deep down sheâs guilty of cheating on you and she wanted an excuse to break up with you..just saying
That might make more sense if her reaction was about her feelings, e.g. “I'm having trouble feeling sympathetic to you right now.” As your post describes, her reaction is about you: “You don't have the right to say that” or “You aren't allowed to feel that way.”
Her reply was “well its clearly trauma you're shaking from the yelling, maybe you need to work on that” She also explained that it looked like I wanted an apology and that I'm not getting one because I didn't tell her what she wanted to know even tho she asked, that's why she yelled
So she's happy with yelling at you. Cool.
Also had to get a ride from her home, as we went one one car, where she expressed that I'm “looking for perfection, she obviously has anger issues, no one is perfect and I should either be happy with what I have or leave”
You need to leave. There's nothing but bullshit in the forecast of your relationship.
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Thatâs because most people are asymptomatic. About 90% of people with it never have symptoms, but they still have the virus and can still pass it on.
I just want to say well done, itâs so very hot to walk away and takes real strength an secure boundaries itâs so inspiring. I find that he hurt you by cheating and still hangs and speaks to your family very manipulative. If he truly cared about you over himself he wouldnât be so selfish after his actions. I hate that ppl think these situations deserve forgiveness, itâs the first tool they jump to as a band aid âoh Iâll do couples counsellingâ oh yeh so we can explore how you getting your dick wet elsewhere was partly my fault? No thanks
I feel so bad for the new girlfriend.
So she expects a baby right away? And you want to have a child right away too?
Womenâď¸ I donât think you crossed the line, she canât take the joke, I always tease my girlfriend, she shouldâve just politely said to not make this kind of jokes with you ever again. Maybe deep down sheâs guilty of cheating on you and she wanted an excuse to break up with you..just saying
Medical history is extremely important due to genetic health conditions.
There's a reason they're called Happy Meals.
That might make more sense if her reaction was about her feelings, e.g. “I'm having trouble feeling sympathetic to you right now.” As your post describes, her reaction is about you: “You don't have the right to say that” or “You aren't allowed to feel that way.”
Her reply was “well its clearly trauma you're shaking from the yelling, maybe you need to work on that” She also explained that it looked like I wanted an apology and that I'm not getting one because I didn't tell her what she wanted to know even tho she asked, that's why she yelled
So she's happy with yelling at you. Cool.
Also had to get a ride from her home, as we went one one car, where she expressed that I'm “looking for perfection, she obviously has anger issues, no one is perfect and I should either be happy with what I have or leave”
You need to leave. There's nothing but bullshit in the forecast of your relationship.
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Hey you don't have to be rude you know. Should I disclose every single details here. I don't think so.
Thatâs because most people are asymptomatic. About 90% of people with it never have symptoms, but they still have the virus and can still pass it on.
Neither one of you sound like you can read the room.
No, his ex from 4.5 or more years ago, which he hasnât seen in three years, and hooked up with out of the blue 1.5 years ago.
And since March 2022, he's lived in a flatshare?
What did you say to that? Do you want him to “hold back”?
I just want to say well done, itâs so very hot to walk away and takes real strength an secure boundaries itâs so inspiring. I find that he hurt you by cheating and still hangs and speaks to your family very manipulative. If he truly cared about you over himself he wouldnât be so selfish after his actions. I hate that ppl think these situations deserve forgiveness, itâs the first tool they jump to as a band aid âoh Iâll do couples counsellingâ oh yeh so we can explore how you getting your dick wet elsewhere was partly my fault? No thanks