So best to just ask him? I mean I really like him and I feel we get on but I’ve survived before I knew him so I’d have to pick musket up and dust myself off if it’s an answer I don’t like.
Huh? Stop calling yourself an idiot and stop trying to break up with her. Don’t talk with her about it. When she’s gone Dash right now, if she’s not around Dash grab your stuff and walk out the front door and delete her number from your phone. The end.
I can get her results already but don’t want to go behind her back and do so. I am hoping she will finally open up to me now. My granddaughter just left and she is getting her bath and then we will chat about it
You are not lame, you are a responsible pet owner. You are all your cats know, they depends on you to live!. IMO your bf is just trying to exercise control over you. He wants you to choose him over your pets, he wants you to choose his happiness over your own. And because you stood up for yourself and didn't give in to him trying to manipulate you, now he is mad. He's is acting like a child who was told he couldn't get candy. He's deliberately asking you to do something that will hurt you. Let him go & block him. Your silence will speak volumes that you don't tolerate trying to be manipulated and disrespected.
You have chosen to split finances so you should save separately. You can save money in your account and he can save in his. Under no. Circumstances should you place money in an account you have no access to.
Lying is absolutely a concern. You should have a serious talk with him about how lying is not an acceptable or healthy way to avoid a conversation. If he wants to be in a relationship, he needs to mature and recognize that he cannot simply lie to get out of things. If he can’t fully accept that and assure you that he will not do it again, you should not stay with him.
The account itself isn’t the issue her. His lying is.
Married couples need married friends. Too much closeness with single friends creates hard scenarios such as this one.
You do know she could have and still could press charges from you selling those pictures, in most countries revenge porn is illegal
So best to just ask him? I mean I really like him and I feel we get on but I’ve survived before I knew him so I’d have to pick musket up and dust myself off if it’s an answer I don’t like.
Huh? Stop calling yourself an idiot and stop trying to break up with her. Don’t talk with her about it. When she’s gone Dash right now, if she’s not around Dash grab your stuff and walk out the front door and delete her number from your phone. The end.
I can get her results already but don’t want to go behind her back and do so. I am hoping she will finally open up to me now. My granddaughter just left and she is getting her bath and then we will chat about it
You are not lame, you are a responsible pet owner. You are all your cats know, they depends on you to live!. IMO your bf is just trying to exercise control over you. He wants you to choose him over your pets, he wants you to choose his happiness over your own. And because you stood up for yourself and didn't give in to him trying to manipulate you, now he is mad. He's is acting like a child who was told he couldn't get candy. He's deliberately asking you to do something that will hurt you. Let him go & block him. Your silence will speak volumes that you don't tolerate trying to be manipulated and disrespected.
There ya go……
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I'm glad you were able to talk and that she's resuming therapy!
I’m talking about real people you see like someone you work with.
You have chosen to split finances so you should save separately. You can save money in your account and he can save in his. Under no. Circumstances should you place money in an account you have no access to.
I would have been ok with that if he was honest
People from the area can be a little bit harsh. Most Philly people aren’t like that!
Lying is absolutely a concern. You should have a serious talk with him about how lying is not an acceptable or healthy way to avoid a conversation. If he wants to be in a relationship, he needs to mature and recognize that he cannot simply lie to get out of things. If he can’t fully accept that and assure you that he will not do it again, you should not stay with him.
The account itself isn’t the issue her. His lying is.
Yes, if you'll read all the way to my second paragraph, I am in fact not defending him.
Yes, if you'll read all the way to my second paragraph, I am in fact not defending him.