Thank you for this. I will write these down and have it on my desk so when she does approach me aggressively again with unsolicited advice – exactly what it is – then I can respond professionally with kindness.
I just don't know how to put it to words because I'm always left from dealing with her confused, anxious, and feeling like I'm going crazy. I appreciate the fact that you gave me some observations that take it past what I think based on how I feel after the altercation and I appreciate it so much!
She's made me question whether I'm a nice person or I'm doing something wrong to deserve this negative attention. I've spoken to my partner about it and I've never had issues with coworkers before so I was at a loss on what to do. I've never encountered anyone like this in previous jobs and I am grateful to you and everyone who commented just to give me any advice or clarification that could improve things.
Did you ever find someone like that? I'm mesmerized by deep talks and podcasts about the universe, origin of life, biology, but I swear the vast majority of women I know instantly fall asleep by the subjects. Bad luck I guess.
I will do tysm
yeah i know and im regreting it
Thank you for this. I will write these down and have it on my desk so when she does approach me aggressively again with unsolicited advice – exactly what it is – then I can respond professionally with kindness.
I just don't know how to put it to words because I'm always left from dealing with her confused, anxious, and feeling like I'm going crazy. I appreciate the fact that you gave me some observations that take it past what I think based on how I feel after the altercation and I appreciate it so much!
She's made me question whether I'm a nice person or I'm doing something wrong to deserve this negative attention. I've spoken to my partner about it and I've never had issues with coworkers before so I was at a loss on what to do. I've never encountered anyone like this in previous jobs and I am grateful to you and everyone who commented just to give me any advice or clarification that could improve things.
Did you ever find someone like that? I'm mesmerized by deep talks and podcasts about the universe, origin of life, biology, but I swear the vast majority of women I know instantly fall asleep by the subjects. Bad luck I guess.