You have a few options. Accept that you'll never be married to this man, wait and see if he ever changes his mind as you get older each year, or leave and find someone who has similar desires and goals as you. Personally, the latter sounds the most reasonable if you want marriage and kids someday.
He’s 36, and he’s whining that he isn’t getting offered food and then acts as if he’s in a position to lecture a 34 year old woman about your behavior, coupled with that vague “trouble” line? Stop brewing his coffee. He needs to snap out of that right now and stop thinking that you’re his surrogate mother. And I’m a dude saying this.
That's debatable.
This is my favourite response
Update: to sum it up, everything is going to shit.
Do you want to give him anymore chances?
You have a few options. Accept that you'll never be married to this man, wait and see if he ever changes his mind as you get older each year, or leave and find someone who has similar desires and goals as you. Personally, the latter sounds the most reasonable if you want marriage and kids someday.
He’s 36, and he’s whining that he isn’t getting offered food and then acts as if he’s in a position to lecture a 34 year old woman about your behavior, coupled with that vague “trouble” line? Stop brewing his coffee. He needs to snap out of that right now and stop thinking that you’re his surrogate mother. And I’m a dude saying this.
Op is engagement his idea or is it you pushing him into moving in early and getting engaged super fast?