This isn't going to get any better. His insecurity will just increase. Think long and very hot about whether or not you want to remain in this marriage.
If absolutely everything else is ok in your relationship then I'd say you are overreacting….people aren't responsible for their dreams not matter how disturbing they are.
I'd say really important, your spark is also the chemistry between you both where he can walk into a room and you'd find him the most attractive person ever vs he's okay looking.
It's what holds you together and makes you fall in love.
I've just had to end a relationship because of this reason, I know what the spark feels like and I won't have anything less.
Damn, you almost got me and then I remembered that you're a troll lol.
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when I try, it's nude not to break down crying, and he can get nasty if I say he has done anything wrong
This isn't going to get any better. His insecurity will just increase. Think long and very hot about whether or not you want to remain in this marriage.
If absolutely everything else is ok in your relationship then I'd say you are overreacting….people aren't responsible for their dreams not matter how disturbing they are.
You haven't even tried finding someone else though.
I'd say really important, your spark is also the chemistry between you both where he can walk into a room and you'd find him the most attractive person ever vs he's okay looking.
It's what holds you together and makes you fall in love.
I've just had to end a relationship because of this reason, I know what the spark feels like and I won't have anything less.
When there's no spark you're more like friends.