Regardless of this guy being good or not, you are not on the same page with regard to how to deal with finances. This will not ever work out in the long term. You should not be financially entangled with him at all. If you want to mess around with him, you certainly can, but it will only end up hurting you to get further attached to someone who will not ever be a good long term match for you.
You'll have to make this decision on your own. Some people get cold feet and can't handle commitment. Some people stay in a relationship because there is nothing better. I don't know who you are or where your relationship will go.
Don't wait for him to divorce you. Make a safe exit plan with your therapist, leave him and serve divorce papers. Stay safe! He is abusive and most likely won't take it well when you leave!
Let her go and move on. Do not wait for someone to decide if they like you or not.
Plus, if she’s just out of a longterm relationship she needs time before she’s ready for something new.
This is the wrong subreddit for that.
What a joke. This has to be a troll
That hurts, but you're right. It's gonna be extremely difficult but hey, maybe it really is time to let go.
Don’t bother
Just tell her you’re moving on and delete her contacts. No reason that at least one of you can act like an adult
Regardless of this guy being good or not, you are not on the same page with regard to how to deal with finances. This will not ever work out in the long term. You should not be financially entangled with him at all. If you want to mess around with him, you certainly can, but it will only end up hurting you to get further attached to someone who will not ever be a good long term match for you.
You'll have to make this decision on your own. Some people get cold feet and can't handle commitment. Some people stay in a relationship because there is nothing better. I don't know who you are or where your relationship will go.
He’s the younger one, but he is too old for this
Good for you enjoy being single. Do something for yourself to make you happy. I did after after a painful break up.
Half your age plus seven. Half of 28 is 14, plus seven is 21. You're in the clear, by a hair. Maybe wait a couple of weeks before proposing
Don't wait for him to divorce you. Make a safe exit plan with your therapist, leave him and serve divorce papers. Stay safe! He is abusive and most likely won't take it well when you leave!