You can marry at any age, but if you would like kids, how long do YOU want to wait and how many would you like? He can have kids likely at any age, but you may run into some fertility issues if you wait too long that could make it very costly or not possible to have bio children.
Also, with his family so dependent on him, it may make it hot for him to put you first. Just No MIL is filled with wives upset over their needs always being second so it might be good to figure out where you'll stand if you are in it for the long haul.
I mean it wouldn't be a bad idea to make the friend group aware that she likes trying to steal guys away. I'm sure some of them have boyfriends, and I'm pretty sure she's done it before with them too.
Thank you so much, this is literally exactly what I needed as it makes everything make so much more sense, it allows us to both have eachother as a reward if you would but give us both time for our separate things. I will withdraw a little to give her that time but obviously still be there for her whenever she needs it, but that should give her the time to help herself and also give myself the time to do my own thing and not overthink as much as i am also occupied etc. Then come together in the evenings and such as one another’s reward.
No, not how it’s written ahahah I meant that they went there for? Winter sports? Yet no mention of snow related activities or anything but drinking beer. I can bet what you want that that reunion is not a skiing event… More like a sausage party with only one potato.
If the dog is house trained and isn’t a major pain, doesn’t seem like a big deal. If the dog isn’t house trained or is one of those annoying dogs that gets separation anxiety then 3 weeks is long.
Is she mad at you, or is it her parents that are mad and are forcing you apart?
Also, how old are you both?
What are your goals?
You can marry at any age, but if you would like kids, how long do YOU want to wait and how many would you like? He can have kids likely at any age, but you may run into some fertility issues if you wait too long that could make it very costly or not possible to have bio children.
Also, with his family so dependent on him, it may make it hot for him to put you first. Just No MIL is filled with wives upset over their needs always being second so it might be good to figure out where you'll stand if you are in it for the long haul.
I mean it wouldn't be a bad idea to make the friend group aware that she likes trying to steal guys away. I'm sure some of them have boyfriends, and I'm pretty sure she's done it before with them too.
Thank you so much, this is literally exactly what I needed as it makes everything make so much more sense, it allows us to both have eachother as a reward if you would but give us both time for our separate things. I will withdraw a little to give her that time but obviously still be there for her whenever she needs it, but that should give her the time to help herself and also give myself the time to do my own thing and not overthink as much as i am also occupied etc. Then come together in the evenings and such as one another’s reward.
Thank you so much
No, not how it’s written ahahah I meant that they went there for? Winter sports? Yet no mention of snow related activities or anything but drinking beer. I can bet what you want that that reunion is not a skiing event… More like a sausage party with only one potato.
For context I also live in Utah. Which is a very Mormon state. if you know anything about it
If the dog is house trained and isn’t a major pain, doesn’t seem like a big deal. If the dog isn’t house trained or is one of those annoying dogs that gets separation anxiety then 3 weeks is long.