I mean, it’s pretty easy to look at your text history and see when you stopped responding.
Also, I’ve read most of your comments. You need to start taking accountability and stop belittling your BF’s feelings. He’s allowed to be irritated by this whole thing. I would be.
Honestly, if I were you, I’d keep in mind that if you choose to have this baby, you are giving him- and by extension his wife- a certain amount of control over your existence that I promise you don’t want. He and his wife can and will file for custody of your child, and they’ll probably get it.
If I were you I know what I’d do, but I’m not you. Just keep in mind that this isn’t going to be remotely like it should be for you.
Be yourself
But he doesn’t have to know everything about you immediately
Pro tip
It doesn’t matter what everyone’s reaction is when you tell the truth, just his because you two have made a commitment to each other.
Other men rejecting you because of your past is not an excuse to lie in your present. And yes, now that you know his views, this is a lie of omission.
And you can define your own morality however you want. I consider lying to be immoral.
I mean, it’s pretty easy to look at your text history and see when you stopped responding.
Also, I’ve read most of your comments. You need to start taking accountability and stop belittling your BF’s feelings. He’s allowed to be irritated by this whole thing. I would be.
This. Don’t expect him to stick around, OP.
Honestly, if I were you, I’d keep in mind that if you choose to have this baby, you are giving him- and by extension his wife- a certain amount of control over your existence that I promise you don’t want. He and his wife can and will file for custody of your child, and they’ll probably get it.
If I were you I know what I’d do, but I’m not you. Just keep in mind that this isn’t going to be remotely like it should be for you.
I don't want to have my years be a waste
“comfortably nurture that life to adulthood” were your exact words. Willfull ignorance is not the problem here.