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  1. Great! That doesn't change my advice though. What do you want to do?

    If this year is a weird one because her family is traveling, Oh well. It happens. Not every holiday is going to work out 'fairly' (see for example, this year).

    If her family is not available this year for Xmas, go to yours. That seems obvious enough. Do your own thing for NYE. See her family next year.

    Decide to work in a July 4 for whichever family 'needs' to see you because you couldn't make Xmas.

  2. Sex therapy is definitely not an option. I do feel like I'm too young to be in a relationship where I feel nothing. It's just he's so nice I really don't want to regret this decision later. I've met a bunch of douche bags and I feel guilty to not appreciate one of the few guys that isn't. I also don't want to hurt his feelings. Although at this point I'm sure it'll be impossible. The positive thing is I'm moving away in 6 months due to a uni program. I could just go like this another six months and then refuse to do Ling distance.

  3. I hope you’re not still considering anything other than kicking her ass to the curb…. If you are, you’re a fool.

  4. Thanks! I appreciate the response, you're right but I don't really know how to communicate this without sounding like an absolute asshole.

    We've had a conversation kinda similar to this, she knows I'm insecure about stuff like this but still disregards them.

  5. He doesn't care about you. It is possible he doesn't care about anyone. You fix it by caring about yourself.

  6. Tell him a 22 yrold man getting in to fist fights is immature and you're not going to coddle his feelings about it. He needs to grow up. He sounds manipulative and immature. Why are you dating someone who continues to get physically violent?? Red flags all over this loser.

  7. She said she is going to be better as long as I am home.

    No she should be better period without any stipulations. You are with your parents for additional help because she is ab absent parent who is a terrible partner.

    She's probably cheating.

  8. Look, this is probably one of the type of posts that will require marriage counselling.

    I assume you two have been together for a lifetime. And in that, there is ALOT of history. That history, brought the relationship to this point.

    It's a two way street.

    I see a lot of “I want this, I need that”… and not a whole lot in regards to “what she wants”…

    The only thing I see about that is this:

    But she mostly said, we don't have any time for ourselves.

    I don't know if she means personal time for herself, or time for you and her together.

    Regardless… sounds like you both are missing the mark with effective communication.

    It could even be as simple as bringing these topics on too strong.

    And there is the chance that you both are stating what you want, but neither is really trying for the other, making it all about yourselves.

    Anyways… like I said, I feel that you two have a lot of underlying issues that reddit is not going to be able to solve for you.

    Sounds like you two may want to consider couples therapy occasionally. Shake up the communication a bit. Try new things out so you two can get to the bottom of it.

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