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A Christian/religious couple in a relationship cannot go out with friends? Wow
Don't get the other comments. It's a shit bag friend move.
Break up. Its been only three months and she's chatting with exes and you are snooping thru her phone. Altho there's never really a good time for either to be happening. Three months in is way too soon for all this drama.
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It’s really up to the code in your group of friends. My group was ex’s are totally off limits without a lot of time (not three months) or a discussion.
If your groups rule was no touching ex’s then he basically cheated on you and that isn’t something that won’t happen again.
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Nothing to do. You talked to her for 6 months and didn't make a move so somebody else did. You should learn from this, just because you are friendly with a girl doesn't mean she will just wait half a year till you ask her out. If you are interested in her, just aske her out on a date
What about my message though? Am I going to sound like I’m crazy if I say that?
And, honestly. I wasn’t or never expected or wanted long distance anything. So, not a surprise since he literally said it previously
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He sounds absolutely charming…….not
I have no idea why you're being downvoted, I couldn't agree more!
Do you wear cuff links often? I’m kinda like.. who wears those? But if you wear them often then they probably weren’t for her ex. If her ex wore them often and you don’t, then probably for him.
Well, as I said, I'm old and have a different perspective about “old irrelevant stuff” vs “old relevant stuff”. I get that you are lashing out at me, because I don't agree with what you did or think you need to do. That's OK. I've been married for a long time and I'm sure there is stuff my husband did in his youth that was less than wonderful – and so did I. Bringing it up wouldn't make us any better friends or lovers than we've been for all these years and would serve zero purpose. At this point in life, we finish each others sentences.
I wish you good luck.
LinkedIn ones do, though!
You should break up with this racist piece of shit ASAP. Don't let him make you feel like that. You are so strong and the path you took in life is what made you who you are today. Never be ashamed of your history, you had adversity but made it through! I'm sorry that you've been made to feel shitty about yourself because of this, your (ex I hope) bf is an idiot
Ooof you guys opened the door and now the only way to try to fix this is to close it completely. You guys need to cut her out of your lives . He doesn’t seem willing though, and I’m pretty sure he’s always been in love with her. I hope you weren’t pressured to open your marriage , because that was the biggest mistake and seemed calculated .
This depends on the person and can happens with both guys and girls.
but she didn't leave me alone when she phoned me over 100 times in 1 day when I didn't want to talk to her lol she doesn't respect anyone
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To be honest, some of his excuses make it sound like he's been thinking of breaking up with you. He's really thought through a lot of them.
I don't think he's against marriage either, but I do think he's against marrying you, and I would not be surprised when he does reach out its to break up. I'm sorry that's harsh, but that's what I get from his reasons.
Some of these excuses can be solved with a prenup. Some of them with both your families will always linger no matter how long you are together.
His excuse of just starting careers is valid too. Wedding planning is a lot of work.
The fact you want kids and he doesn't? That's compatibility. If a guy doesn't want kids, I stop seeing them because I know I'm not compatible with them. You say your willing to give up a family and having kids, but I can guarantee in another 10 years you will begin to resent him, especially with others around you start having kids, you'll remember what you are missing out on. And if you end up pressuring him for a kid he doesn't want? He'll resent you both.
Its great you guys have been together for 10 years, but it's okay to admit you both want different things in life.
If he put the blame on you, he did not accept the blame. You didn't have a gun to his head. You did not make him do it. He did it. He chose to stay in a situation until he could no longer control his behavior. He may be sorry he scared you, but until he accepts full blame for his actions, he cannot be sorry for them. Yes, he can overcome this, but no, not until he accepts what he allowed himself to do. You can forgive him, and still never forget. You can get past this, but it will always be in your mind. He needs to be able to regulate his emotions, or he'll always be a risk. He chooses to stay in that situation, instead of taking some time to calm down. With that being said, if he communicates the need for space, you need to respect that. Both of you need to work through this if you're to stay together. If you don't, it will happen again. And again. It still might. Even with working through his emotional regulation issues. Is it worth the risk? Only you can answer that one
Hopefully since they've only been married a month she can get an annulment which is way easier than divorce (I think).
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I had something similar happen to me. My boyfriend at the time was abusive and a piece of shit, and also living a couple hours away. He didn't want to come down but then got angry with me when my male best friend came down from the same town as my pos ex, and stayed for a week, even though my sister also came down with him. We slept far better that first night they were there, and then we got a bunch of spikes etc to put around the walls of the garden so no one could climb in via there again.
Do what you need to do to feel safe.
the problem is, you don't love him. he conditioned you to think you love him.
Too many control issues! Run away!
Why on earth are you still with him? He's a liar and a cheater. Respect yourself and dump him.
He prioritized time with his friend over time with you. His friend who is on house arrest, i.e., some idiot who did something to deserve being stuck alone on NYE. Take that how you will, but don’t let him gaslight you about what he did. He ditched you for his friend.
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You say that. But I don’t even have a gf or anything. Time feels like it’s slim now unless I want to start dating divorced people with kids and stuff
Dude shut up. Just stop. This is not acceptable behavior from a 25 year old and you’re wrong to try to justify it and tell someone to stay in a relationship like this. Of all the posts to complain about ‘just leave’ comments, this really isn’t the one.
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Be honest….are you nervous that he isn't attracted to you? Where do you think that came from? In Vino Veritas
I'm more nervous about that than the awkwardness of a drunk text
You cut it off Right now otherwise nothing is going to change, however this might motivate him to change
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First, couples therapy is all well and good, but you need to be seeing an individual therapist. Having your husband AND your parents think you were a cheater is awful and traumatic. Couples therapy isn’t going to really address that. And for it to happen while you’re pregnant is just more trauma on top as your being slammed with all these different hormones. Second, I understand you wanting your child to grow up with two parents together as your own step dad didn’t love you as much as his bio kids, but an unhappy home with two parents isn’t better than a happy home with one parent.
Your husband took the word of the person who he (claims to have) turned down for sex about you cheating. Either he is an absolutely bloody idiot and didn’t think she might be lying to fuck your life up, or he just wanted an excuse to fuck around without it technically being cheating. And I’d bet money that Ali is amongst those people he slept with. I don’t know how you can even look at him after his actions.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
It was the first night of zero response for literally 14hrs and she was rejecting my calls that and a text would have been fine that really set it off I kinda lost trust after that and her bullshit response the next day. Idk maybe it’s me but if my significant other is clearly panicking (again this is not a common occurrence at all, literally never happened before) I would at the very least let them know I’m okay. I seriously doubted she would have cheated but she clearly didn’t respect me and my feelings, especially knowing I get panic attacks and a best friend in the hospital
What new parents have such a hard time accepting is they are not entitled to anything. Sorry but i have no sympathy for people pumping out kids and have no plan beyond shove em on the grandparents. There is a 100% chance your daughter will be dropping off the baby with 0 notice.
Fair, i guess i don't want to deal with the fallout but is the least i can do, let her be mad at me. JFC i'm really an awful person
Thank you for your advice.
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I love how women can say shit like this when the person who's actually in danger is him.
Leave and walk away!! He is using you as a sex toy and there isn't anything polyamorous about this, sorry my opinion, I would want out.if he can have other women you can have other men!
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Look, if his assets earn $10 million a year, he can compensate you your salary plus the career trajectory of raises. That way you have your own money but you can also save for retirement in case of separation.
my glass house? haha I don't think you know how that expression works troll.
You didn’t answer all the questions…. Ultimately all I’m gonna say from here is to move on. The relationship is over. There’s no use digging in to details like this.
If he mistreats you it is a sign of abuse.
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You need to come up with a long term solution- you can’t simply Chuck your dogs out the bedroom when your boyfriend comes over. That isn’t fair on your dogs.
Thank you for saying this, because I am very upset about that part also. I asked him how does he know they actually came and he said well they kept asking for it so I’m sure they wouldn’t have asked for it if they weren’t liking it… anyways he was pretty much in denial over the possibility there was faking it going on in the past. But ngl I want to fight some of these women…?
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Girlfriend insists on travelling the world solo
I (23m) can't understand why my girlfriend (22f) would want to travel the world on her own. We have been together for 1 year and she is starting to plan a trip to Europe that has no ending. She plans on quitting her job and booking a 1 way ticket to Europe to begin travelling around world with no stress about leaving me behind and insists she wants to do this solo.
This relationship is the best relationship either of us have ever been in, we are open, communicate well and have developed an amazing connection, we both agree that we could be the one for each other.
I find it hot to understand, because if I were to travel, all I would want to do is share it with the people I love and to experience the different cultures of the world with her.
I even brought up the idea of me going along for the first month of the trip and then heading home, but she doesn't want to be constrained by my 1 month limit and have to rush around to different countries in the time that I am over there.
If anyone has some experience with something similar, or any advice, it would be greatly appreciated.
Edit: She has stated many times she will remain loyal and that our relationship is still something extremely important to her but she can't let it get in the way of the dream she has had for so many years. (Does this change anyone's thoughts?)
People don't get put in prison for something like that, don't worry. There's no crime being committed on your end. If there's anything in this story that could violate the law, it's things she does that may constitute stalking or harassment. (Attempted sexual assault maybe for jumping at you and trying to kiss you too)
Lame, but I guess your right. I cant wait my whole life. And this “selfless” approach just leaves me miserable and on edge. It sucks its taken me this long to realize, I just dont matter enough to make any changes.
There's no doubt you can do this. Take it slow and go to a few places where women will be. You have a way with words no doubt so initiating conversation won't be very hot. Make sure you're upfront with them when the time is right. Just like you looking for something specific the woman will be doing the same.
That’s well established and that is the primary focus. I’m mad at every party involved, including and especially myself. And we are dealing with those consequences and working through those issues. But I wouldn’t consider him an entirely innocent party in this. If it happens that he also engages in activity that harms the community at large, is there any real downside to putting him away for it?
Dude she got lip filler in 2019 everyone saying she has to disclose lip filler she got 3-4yrs ago is ridiculous. Shes been with this guy less than a year, it’s irrelevant. He never said i need you to disclose every cosmetic procedure: he said i don’t like the fake look. Good cosmetic procedure don’t look fake. Do Blake lively, Katy Perry, Cindy Crawford, gwyneth Paltrow, Kaley Cuoco, Lisa Kudrow, etc etc etc all look fake or amazing? Yes there is kardashian level cosmetic surgery where everyone knows you’ve had it done but thats obviously not OP’s goals. All these comments remind of when guys compliment me like “i love that you don’t wear make up” i am wearing make up you just have no idea what you are talking about.
I'm in the boat that guys and girls can be friends. Invite her to hang with you and your wife.
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My husband and I have been together for 18 years, married for 16 (will be 17 in July). We married young and as you can imagine we've had our share of up's and downs but we have always managed to work through the issues. So before I proceed any further I want to make it clear that divorce is NOT an option, we firmly believe in working through issues and becoming stronger together. Also my husband believes that therapy is pointless because all therapists and psychologists want to make sure you stay clients so they won't actually help you through the problem. He won't budge on this, I've tried.
Through our relationship we have had a repeating issue, lack of sex. I have a low libido and he has a higher libido. He no longer approaches me for sex because I've told him no 'too much' and he is tired of 'being rejected'. He also won't stop saying that I find him unattractive and that's why I don't want to have sex with him. This is not true, I find him attractive I just don't have the same sexual drive as he does, anymore. When we were younger and everything was newer we of course did it more often but even then I don't believe we did it nearly as often as other young couples. He wants to have sex a couple times a week at least, I am happy if we have sex maybe once a month. Honestly sex is just not a need for me and has felt like a chore a lot of the time.
Without going in to detail I will just say that I have been happy to help him so that he still feels satisfied, but this has proven to not be enough for him. Over the last couple years he has brought up the idea of having hook-ups, I have repeatedly told him no. Recently while laying in bed we were talking about our sex lives and he again brought up the idea of having hook-ups, he stated that there wouldn't be anything emotional about it, just physical. I brought up the idea of toys, we've had them before and I'm totally fine with that, he then said 'but I need that human connection'. I shut down after that and we eventually went to sleep.
His words have been bugging me ever since that night, they've been echoing in my head and I just can't understand it. I don't know how to even approach him about this, about how much it frustrates me that he is being so selfish. As I type this and re-read my post thus far I just don't understand how someone wants to have causal hook-ups but still want human connection? I try to talk to him about what HE can do to help me perhaps feel more desired but he doesn't seem to want to understand because it doesn't make logical sense to him. I don't know, I'm starting to ramble now because I'm getting more upset. I don't know if any of this is clear, I will do my best to check in later to see if anyone has any questions. For now, Reddit, what do I say to him? How do I even try to understand what he means by 'human connection'?
TL;DR Lack of sex makes husband want to do hook-up's because he wants 'human connection' over toys.
This is what’s happening inside your brain:
Imagine that you were taking her out to a fancy, romantic and expensive restaurant and you were doing this to show her how special she was to you. She then says cool but I would like to invite my coworker along because I can talk to them and enjoy their company.
You’re paying for everything but someone else will get to come along and get it for free???
No thanks!
She misses her ex
It means everything, you dipshit
Said this before and I’ll say it again—there are plenty of women in their 30’s who look 10+ years younger than they really are, it’s just that they won’t date these losers. They’re dating or married to the men worth their time. All the dudes that do this claim it’s about attractiveness (which is gross anyway considering your partner will inevitably age no matter how naked they are) and not because attractive women their age won’t go near them. Younger women are unfortunately easier to manipulate so their prospects are “better” dating people out of their league that are way younger than them.
You can get her a cheaper ring to start, a promise ring, and propose with that. After the proposal, you can let her know that that wasn't her engagement ring and that she can actually pick it out herself. Both of these rings will be meaningful to her and she will be happy to pick out the exact design she can see herself wearing every day.
If you can't get over it, break up with her… but you did this to yourself. Don't snoop. That is so shitty.
Oh please, I live! in Japan too and people absolutely care about age differences.
Frankly, it sounds to me if your wife really wanted to save your relationship, she'd have found another job. That's the least she could do after a betrayal like that. That said, you're both in individual and couples counseling so I thin it's best just to wait and see what comes out of that. Those counselors can help you better than anyone on the internet.
Quite the ableist question don't you think? Coming from someone who is autistic myself and would NEVER partake in such childish behavior with my girlfriend. Why don't you actually learn about what being neurodivergent means before you say stupid shit like this. I'll answer your question. Who knows if he's autistic? Who cares if he's autistic? That's not an excuse to behave like an insufferable man child.
She is definitely very supportive and understanding.
It's a definite change where my crying would lead to her verbally yelling at me or even slapping me to “snap” out of it
There is life and earnings outside of the US – expand your perspectives. Your comments are irrelevant and further show your naivety
Is this your first relationship? You may need to get accustomed to not getting GM texts every day cos that’s not realistic long term.
You’re gonna have to find ways to cope because spiraling every time you don’t get a response in a timely manner isn’t gonna good for either of you.
Chris Rock actually just came out with a fitting joke. If a man is not willing to help pay for the abortion, then why the fuck does the girl think they’ll help in any aspect of the relationship. It’s true, because there are relationships where I felt inclined to help and others where I felt like the girl could settle it herself. Obviously, what I’ve done in the past is fucked up, but it doesn’t change the fact that I was never going to be involved in those relationships.
I wish you and Sharon the best ❤️
Photos have been exchanged at varying frequencies, and I have wanted to have a call of some kind. But then these cycles of a day or two with nothing make me worry that I’m misinterpreting things or it’ll just come off as needy. And then I think, why bother lying about how I feel? And now I’ve tangled myself into paralysis.
Either he's a complete moron or he knows full well what is going on.
What's your sense of security based on, since I can't find any reason for it from what I've read so far?
And why so reluctant to set and enforce your own boundaries?