We all know where this is going. Even if she doesn't sleep with someone, she will likely cross a boundary. You need to explain to her that her going on this trip and being around her ex will cause problems in the relationship. She can decide what to do then.
Op said she’d been saving for 5 years….but it doesn’t sound like she’s chipping in since her concern is using the whole $300,000. Unless she may have meant her share and his plus his brothers house. My advise would be to not borrow twice buying a home, also to buy a house based on one income, not two. Because jobs can be shaky, especially in todays world. Unless you are planning on a cash purchase of a house.
When I read marriage counselling I did a double take like damn how would someone come back from this? More so why on earth would she want to be married to someone who fucks sex workers behind her back
How about you ask for his.
As are deep fakes now
We all know where this is going. Even if she doesn't sleep with someone, she will likely cross a boundary. You need to explain to her that her going on this trip and being around her ex will cause problems in the relationship. She can decide what to do then.
Op said she’d been saving for 5 years….but it doesn’t sound like she’s chipping in since her concern is using the whole $300,000. Unless she may have meant her share and his plus his brothers house. My advise would be to not borrow twice buying a home, also to buy a house based on one income, not two. Because jobs can be shaky, especially in todays world. Unless you are planning on a cash purchase of a house.
When I read marriage counselling I did a double take like damn how would someone come back from this? More so why on earth would she want to be married to someone who fucks sex workers behind her back