Possibly the kindest thing you can do for this guy is give him some tough love. Obviously you've secured your finances now, but you need to move out. You need to tell him that his Coke habit ruined his life, his work and his reputation. I bet there was a reason he got demoted from that job if he's got a coke habbit that blew through 80 grand plus some of your money. Before you know it, there will be all sorts of people coming to demand money from him. He could wind up homeless and in danger . If he keeps his habit going, his health is going to crash and burn. Tell him that unless he gets professional help you are gone for good. That might wind up saving his life. Please update us and please tell us how you are doing because all this is taking a huge toll on you.
People always say this, but when people go to yoga, they usually just pack up and leave after. And there isnβt much socializing during.
Pull the red handle and eject.
Of course you were projecting lol
Marriage will be over by the time you know it.
Yes
I would not stay in a relationship with someone like this. I know that's not what you want to hear.
You accept by dumping him
Possibly the kindest thing you can do for this guy is give him some tough love. Obviously you've secured your finances now, but you need to move out. You need to tell him that his Coke habit ruined his life, his work and his reputation. I bet there was a reason he got demoted from that job if he's got a coke habbit that blew through 80 grand plus some of your money. Before you know it, there will be all sorts of people coming to demand money from him. He could wind up homeless and in danger . If he keeps his habit going, his health is going to crash and burn. Tell him that unless he gets professional help you are gone for good. That might wind up saving his life. Please update us and please tell us how you are doing because all this is taking a huge toll on you.
I feel like she showed you her character and you are repeating a pattern.