Then do that and stop taking his notes and posting them on the internet so a bunch of idiotic strangers can magnify your worst fears so you can act on them without feeling stupid about it.
Stay busy and let time pass. There's no magic shortcut. It seems like you're particularly feeling it when you're alone late at night. Consider moving the time you sleep forward a little, maybe tire yourself out a bit so you sleep easily.
Maybe its for himself?
It seems she is engaged from his profile
Then do that and stop taking his notes and posting them on the internet so a bunch of idiotic strangers can magnify your worst fears so you can act on them without feeling stupid about it.
Stay busy and let time pass. There's no magic shortcut. It seems like you're particularly feeling it when you're alone late at night. Consider moving the time you sleep forward a little, maybe tire yourself out a bit so you sleep easily.
That would be the first step before swearing off sex.
Also, very important for her overall health.