Honestly was just hopping someone could come up with a miracle, because you are absolutely right. Any tips on how to avoid it getting worse tho? Currently Iโm just refusing to take more chores, specially if it โhelpsโ him in any way. I understand it makes my mother workload worse, but they always say this is their house, not mine, so I see it as acting accordingly
Bro, the fight was over something trivial. Its called a crow bar. Basically she wants out she's either banging someone else or wants to and she will purposefully escalate “something trivial” to the point where she spits on you (which by the way is assault and can be prosecuted as such) to get you to explode and nuke the relationship so when she looks back on it she can tell herself it was your fault not hers. Bounce like a bad check and let the lawyers do the talking from her on out
Boundaries are not for you to control your partner's actions. They are to define what you are comfortable with.
It may seem like a minor difference, but it's pretty big. That means you can let her know what you are comfortable with in the context of a relationship (i.e. “When X happens, it makes me feel uncomfortable/insecure/anxious”). And she can do the same for you. You each decide if the relationship is reasonable for you.
Lmao. I wish I was surprised at all…
Honestly was just hopping someone could come up with a miracle, because you are absolutely right. Any tips on how to avoid it getting worse tho? Currently Iโm just refusing to take more chores, specially if it โhelpsโ him in any way. I understand it makes my mother workload worse, but they always say this is their house, not mine, so I see it as acting accordingly
Bro, the fight was over something trivial. Its called a crow bar. Basically she wants out she's either banging someone else or wants to and she will purposefully escalate “something trivial” to the point where she spits on you (which by the way is assault and can be prosecuted as such) to get you to explode and nuke the relationship so when she looks back on it she can tell herself it was your fault not hers. Bounce like a bad check and let the lawyers do the talking from her on out
Do you want him to be romantic?
Share with him, may feel like the 3rd wheel, doesn't know how he fits in anymore. Talk to him!
Boundaries are not for you to control your partner's actions. They are to define what you are comfortable with.
It may seem like a minor difference, but it's pretty big. That means you can let her know what you are comfortable with in the context of a relationship (i.e. “When X happens, it makes me feel uncomfortable/insecure/anxious”). And she can do the same for you. You each decide if the relationship is reasonable for you.