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I have not defended him whatsoever, i was only stating that it’s legal, not something that I could take further. It is disgusting but I shouldn’t feel ashamed of that, I was the child, he was an adult. I have cut contact between us, there isn’t much more I can do in this situation.
If you ask a lot of single moms they would never second guess if they’d have their child again, they always say yes. You ask them about what circumstances they’d like being a single mom and I bet you 99/100 would say hers is not one of the good ones. Yea, it might work out but this is an oopsie baby. Not a planned family. His reaction shows that and the fact she didn’t know this is how he’d react is telling of their relationship. Will they be alright? Maybe. Is she bringing a child into a happy and healthy situation where the child can grow up safely with everything they need? If her parents help raise the baby maybe
Also not a bad idea to keep some handy. Certain medications can affect birth control and they recommend using other methods while taking them. Sometimes you want a cleaner set up if you're traveling. Etc
I think my wife and I only did once or twice, otherwise relying on her bc ?♂️
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You shouldn't be living with your mother, the environment is bad for you. Find an apt share and move out.
Been there, end of the day do you!
Thank you! Those are very insightful opinions!
I have not defended him whatsoever, i was only stating that it’s legal, not something that I could take further. It is disgusting but I shouldn’t feel ashamed of that, I was the child, he was an adult. I have cut contact between us, there isn’t much more I can do in this situation.
If you ask a lot of single moms they would never second guess if they’d have their child again, they always say yes. You ask them about what circumstances they’d like being a single mom and I bet you 99/100 would say hers is not one of the good ones. Yea, it might work out but this is an oopsie baby. Not a planned family. His reaction shows that and the fact she didn’t know this is how he’d react is telling of their relationship. Will they be alright? Maybe. Is she bringing a child into a happy and healthy situation where the child can grow up safely with everything they need? If her parents help raise the baby maybe
Also, I didn't reduce her emotions to childish and immature, they were her own words. I just didn't deny it when she said it.
Also not a bad idea to keep some handy. Certain medications can affect birth control and they recommend using other methods while taking them. Sometimes you want a cleaner set up if you're traveling. Etc
I think my wife and I only did once or twice, otherwise relying on her bc ?♂️
You're in love, and it's terrifying and exciting all at once. Talk to him. If you've had deep conversations already, you can talk about this as well.