OP, if you were a woman and your husband did this to you about 50% of the comments here would've been encouraging you to get a divorce. But I don't think you should expect your wife to cancel her plans. It just probably should've happened. In sickness and health. Thankfully you are going to recuperate. But covid taught us to hold our family a little tighter and not take them for granted. She took you for granted. Feel better.
Gonna have to fess up and talk. Could you go to a therapist together to talk it through?
OP, if you were a woman and your husband did this to you about 50% of the comments here would've been encouraging you to get a divorce. But I don't think you should expect your wife to cancel her plans. It just probably should've happened. In sickness and health. Thankfully you are going to recuperate. But covid taught us to hold our family a little tighter and not take them for granted. She took you for granted. Feel better.