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You are really going about this the worst way possible.
Being uncomfortable because your partner talks about someone of the opposite sex is weird. I don’t necessarily blame your boyfriend for not wanting to be upfront about who he was talking to.
Ask him flat out if he wants to renegotiate everything, if not stop the 'jokes.'
Oh the tangled webs we weave when first we practice to deceive…
Just tell her you saw it and ask her about it. Apologize for looking at the message.
You have to unhook. Psychically, emotionally. Easier said than done, I know. You can do it! Your serenity is at stake.
Screw him, don’t let anyone tell you your physical appearance bothers them..
BREAKING NEWS!!! Looks change!
Honestly though.. my husband met me at 26yrs of age. Let me tell you, I had the body of Aphrodite with the face and lips of scarlet Johansson!
Turns out I got sick with an autoimmune disorder and it changed EVERYTHING! My looks, my personality, my glow!
I got better slowly over YEARS! He married me regardless?
I was told pregnancy wouldn’t happen for me so we didn’t count on it.. well IT HAPPENED!!
I had a high risk pregnancy and had to deliver early via c section after being in the hospital almost 10 days.
Girl, the moral of my story is never once did he comment on my looks other than “look at that face?!?! You have the most beautiful face I’ve ever seen!!” And I was sweaty and bed ridden at the time.
Preeclampsia during pregnancy and gained 76 POUNDS!! Yet this gave us a healthy beautiful baby girl??
And she’s 9 months old but I’m still not back to my pre baby weight. Yet he comes home from work and now says “look at those beautiful faces!!”
There is someone out there who will love you for who you are and what you are. Don’t let someone who is 18 yrs old tell you how your body should be!!
It will change in many different ways however life treats you. You can pick a man that understands that or a man who makes you feel stress/doubt about what and who you choose to be as a healthy young woman.
Good luck to you!!!✌️?
I've been through this type of divorce. There's no evidence to collect that matters beyond social value. The divorce is just about splitting assets, debts, and a parenting plan. No one on the legal side will give two shits if you've got 4k video of a spouse gargling 20 dudes cum. It doesn't factor into it at all.
The real life, non-reddit mob advice is this:
The most important thing to do is the hardest, but you have to remove the emotion from any decision making. A good lawyer will do that for instantly. You just have to keep it up outside of their office.
Don't move out. If you do, you can be legally blocked from moving back in, and that residence is where your kids on-line.
Stay in touch with your lawyer, but not in a stream of consciousness fashion. Make a note of all the questions you think of during the week and send them in a single email. This will keep your costs down.
Don't lock them out of joint accounts. It's generally cool to keep using them for the same, normal expense you paid prior to filing. It's not ok to spend it on a trip, shopping spree, or hookers and blow. You WILL have to pay that back if you do.
Consider therapy. Friends and family are a nice support system, but they really just augment rather than replace professional help.
You can open a new bank account and reroute your paychecks there, but don't stop paying your normal share of bills, whatever it is, like 50/50, 75/25, ect… You can also split your cell phone off to it's own account separate from theirs. Don't deactivate their phone.
Change your electronic passwords to your solo accounts. Don't block them from joint accounts, like Netflix.
Rather than wasting your time collecting evidence of an affair, get your financial documents copied and in order. Tax returns for the last few years, bank statements, any loan documents either of you have outstanding, credit card balances, mortgage, ect… These will absolutely matter.
Most states use a predetermined formula for separate maintenance (used to be call alimony) and child support. Each figure it a little different, but expect the baseline of child support for each parent to be 25% of their income. Unemployed people are generally calculated as if they make minimum wage, though if your job history is substantially better than that, and you quit your job just before arbitration/court you'll likely be calculated based on your tax returns. From that, credit is applied for the number of days per year the children stays with you, healthcare costs, school, and recurring activities (soccer, piano lessons, ect…). If your credits don't reach that 25% mark, you'll likely owe child support. If they exceed it, there's a chance your former partner will owe it. Fun side fact- your other children's expenses (kids that aren't from your partner) count toward that 25% mark.
Don't fear false accusations of abuse/assault. Courts hear these all the time and are skeptical. Try to avoid being in the same room as the former partner, and walk away from any potential escalation. Remember Rule 1, take the emotion out of decision making.
Full custody – good luck. The default is 50/50 and the bar for altering that involuntarily is extremely high. Even if she was banging her pill dealer it likely won't be enough to budge that default setting.
For the separation agreement (and the parenting plan) you can add certain clauses that aren't standard. For example, if a house is being sold because neither can buy out the other's equity, you can list a specific order in which debts must be settled from the proceeds. That way, if she did something like open a credit card in your name with a POA while you were deployed, you can ensure that's paid off first before any proceeds are divided.