We werenโt really close, I told her I was traveling to the place she lives and she offered me to stay at her place. We met on a trip 8 years ago and kept in contact through social media.
Precisely. Because this is an emotional affair FOR HIM. HE contacts you when it fits his fancy, HE benefits from the extra attention you are giving him when he needs it. You fill the voids that he feels his wife cannot.
He does not care about losing you because you are an addition to his life as it stands. Losing you means he loses out on optional possibilities outside of his regular life. He has only your attention in the moment to gain from interacting with you and that is precisely why your feelings on all matters come second.
Then he's manipulative. This was my narcissistic ex's favorite phrase whenever I tried to do anything for myself.
Final goodbye. Then block everywhere. Change your number if you have to. Just cut him off and get therapy.
They sort the estate. If you don't like it, assign someone else to look after your estate.
Dude are you kidding you were controlling af and you disrespected her
We werenโt really close, I told her I was traveling to the place she lives and she offered me to stay at her place. We met on a trip 8 years ago and kept in contact through social media.
Stop cooking and tell him you will not be cooking until he can have a conversation with you.
Precisely. Because this is an emotional affair FOR HIM. HE contacts you when it fits his fancy, HE benefits from the extra attention you are giving him when he needs it. You fill the voids that he feels his wife cannot.
He does not care about losing you because you are an addition to his life as it stands. Losing you means he loses out on optional possibilities outside of his regular life. He has only your attention in the moment to gain from interacting with you and that is precisely why your feelings on all matters come second.
PLEASE DUMP THIS ASSHOLE