I've been there, girlfriend. My parents hated my husband because he wasn't a tradesmen, didn't drink, didn't party, didn't do sports, etc. He was a big ole nerd, but so am I.
We've been together for 15 years. They didn't accept him until our wedding 4 years ago. I made it clear that if they made me choose, they would lose. I don't bend to dictators who they controlling my life, and neither should you.
If this guy is a good man and has truly changed, then it's up to you to decide if you want to take a chance on him. Have a secret relationship, if you're scared of them disowning you. And if they disown you because you've made a decision AS AN ADULT and have proven you won't be controlled by them, then do you actually want those people in your life?
Up to a point ok, but if you throw kids into the mic then if you expect her to raise kids, do housework while you put your feet up then I’d say I disagree with your expectations.
He’s been talking to her. He is obsessed with her and all the signs show it. It isn’t going to work out because of his selfishness I’m sorry.
I've been there, girlfriend. My parents hated my husband because he wasn't a tradesmen, didn't drink, didn't party, didn't do sports, etc. He was a big ole nerd, but so am I.
We've been together for 15 years. They didn't accept him until our wedding 4 years ago. I made it clear that if they made me choose, they would lose. I don't bend to dictators who they controlling my life, and neither should you.
If this guy is a good man and has truly changed, then it's up to you to decide if you want to take a chance on him. Have a secret relationship, if you're scared of them disowning you. And if they disown you because you've made a decision AS AN ADULT and have proven you won't be controlled by them, then do you actually want those people in your life?
Up to a point ok, but if you throw kids into the mic then if you expect her to raise kids, do housework while you put your feet up then I’d say I disagree with your expectations.
Have fun being broke your whole life after he leaves you and your stuck with 2 kids
I’m unsure where you for the idea to “be rude” to your friend from my message, but like I already said, you do you. Good luck.
Yes, I'm the op