Have you asked him to do anything specific with you? Have you showed him which spots to hit that feel really good for you? The biggest problem with sexual displeasure comes from lack of communication. Make some suggestions for your sex life and see if including toys would help.
Can you give some examples?
I immediately thought of art studio guy.
There are other options other than a hormonal birth control. Her other options are IUD or diaphragm or spermicide.
Have you asked him to do anything specific with you? Have you showed him which spots to hit that feel really good for you? The biggest problem with sexual displeasure comes from lack of communication. Make some suggestions for your sex life and see if including toys would help.
Oh boy. If you can't communicate about that, you've got bigger fish to fry.