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I've never heard of a therapist telling someone to break up for positive reasons. Also, if he loves you then he certainly doesn't trust you can handle his life which is what long-term would imply. You can't believe people are working on themselves you just need to focus on yourself and your maturity. You can have a relationship with this person again but why put efforts into something where the other person feels like taking breaks from you.
I'm going to stop you right there. He's happy when you're at home or at work because he knows where you are. He doesn't like it when he doesn't know exactly where you are and exactly what you're doing because then he can't control you. He can't keep tabs on you. Pretty soon he's going to start complaining about you spending any time with your friends or family and you're going to stop doing so just to avoid an argument. He'll have gotten exactly what he wanted, to isolate you.
Pretty soon he's going to start complaining about you even needing to go to work. He's going to do this because he knows that without money, it's going to be harder for you to leave. Same thing if he isolates you from everyone except himself. He knows that you won't have a support network and it will make it harder to leave. Also, he won't have any witnesses for how he's treating you.
He knows exactly what he's doing and he's doing it on purpose. I don't care how many times he says he's going to change, he won't. It's just empty promises to keep you in the marriage. You can't love him enough to make him change. Abusers don't change. It's nothing you're doing wrong, you didn't cause it and it's not your fault. He's going to try to make you think that how he's treating you is your fault but I promise you it's not. You'll hear things like well if you hadn't done X, I wouldn't have had to do Y.
Nothing you do is ever going to be good enough, he's not going to change. I made the mistake of thinking that if I just tried a little harder than he would treat me the way I deserved. I about killed myself trying to do it and he would have killed me if I hadn't left. He started out exactly like this and by the end, he tried to kill me. I ended up having to get a restraining order. Please don't make the mistake of thinking that you can try harder and he will treat you the way you deserve. It's not going to happen. You also can't love this out of him. Don't waste years of your life on this man.
You are. But this is something that can be a point of incompatibility if you arenโt secure enough / the kind of person to be okay with dating someone with a flirty personality. You know who she is and how she is.
I've never heard of a therapist telling someone to break up for positive reasons. Also, if he loves you then he certainly doesn't trust you can handle his life which is what long-term would imply. You can't believe people are working on themselves you just need to focus on yourself and your maturity. You can have a relationship with this person again but why put efforts into something where the other person feels like taking breaks from you.
Also, she 'randomly' showed up on a day that girlfriend is normally out of town.
I would buy a random Saturday or Sunday drop by. I'm but not a work day drop by.
I don't see how that's relevant but, 25.
I'm going to stop you right there. He's happy when you're at home or at work because he knows where you are. He doesn't like it when he doesn't know exactly where you are and exactly what you're doing because then he can't control you. He can't keep tabs on you. Pretty soon he's going to start complaining about you spending any time with your friends or family and you're going to stop doing so just to avoid an argument. He'll have gotten exactly what he wanted, to isolate you.
Pretty soon he's going to start complaining about you even needing to go to work. He's going to do this because he knows that without money, it's going to be harder for you to leave. Same thing if he isolates you from everyone except himself. He knows that you won't have a support network and it will make it harder to leave. Also, he won't have any witnesses for how he's treating you.
He knows exactly what he's doing and he's doing it on purpose. I don't care how many times he says he's going to change, he won't. It's just empty promises to keep you in the marriage. You can't love him enough to make him change. Abusers don't change. It's nothing you're doing wrong, you didn't cause it and it's not your fault. He's going to try to make you think that how he's treating you is your fault but I promise you it's not. You'll hear things like well if you hadn't done X, I wouldn't have had to do Y.
Nothing you do is ever going to be good enough, he's not going to change. I made the mistake of thinking that if I just tried a little harder than he would treat me the way I deserved. I about killed myself trying to do it and he would have killed me if I hadn't left. He started out exactly like this and by the end, he tried to kill me. I ended up having to get a restraining order. Please don't make the mistake of thinking that you can try harder and he will treat you the way you deserve. It's not going to happen. You also can't love this out of him. Don't waste years of your life on this man.
Me too!
Yeah but I feel like that might escalate the situation
Have all the sex you want!
Just don't get emotionally invested or believe anything he says. And always insist on condoms
You are. But this is something that can be a point of incompatibility if you arenโt secure enough / the kind of person to be okay with dating someone with a flirty personality. You know who she is and how she is.
Why do these brokers ass men even bother to date?